You are probably too desperate. That vibe shines through. Do you prioritise yourself? You need to at least like yourself and know your worth otherwise you dont know what kind people you may attract if you find someone now . We attract people of the same nature as us. It is your personality if you are desperate.
Well what's "prioritiszing one self ?
Idk I feel my self esteem does pick up, until someone ghosts me (a friend), or I am rejected the odd time romantically then I feel I take a step back again :(
Taking care of yourself, putting yourself first, liking yourself.
You can't make self esteem dependent on how other people treat you, the majority of the time their behaviour is merely just a reflection of their own self anyway and has less to do with you. Such as damaged, unsure people bullying others for a temporary sense of power. It's normal to be affected by such things happening though, everyone is, but you should work on yourself - for your own sake - and build enough strength so that it doesn't make you fall apart completely and so that you also attract better people who doesn't ghost you and such.
Why doesn't anyone make me a priority?
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You are probably too desperate. That vibe shines through. Do you prioritise yourself? You need to at least like yourself and know your worth otherwise you dont know what kind people you may attract if you find someone now . We attract people of the same nature as us. It is your personality if you are desperate.
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Well what's "prioritiszing one self ?
Idk I feel my self esteem does pick up, until someone ghosts me (a friend), or I am rejected the odd time romantically then I feel I take a step back again :(
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Taking care of yourself, putting yourself first, liking yourself.
You can't make self esteem dependent on how other people treat you, the majority of the time their behaviour is merely just a reflection of their own self anyway and has less to do with you. Such as damaged, unsure people bullying others for a temporary sense of power. It's normal to be affected by such things happening though, everyone is, but you should work on yourself - for your own sake - and build enough strength so that it doesn't make you fall apart completely and so that you also attract better people who doesn't ghost you and such.
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Okay thanks very much