I know the feeling. The feeling like you have it harder to connect. That you are always a side note. If you want to feel full just try to balance yourself. Pure goodness is bad, not a single person wants that. Search for an equilibrium. Make yourself mysterious. Bait the people into wanting to know more about you. For starters you could try to search people like you and try to develop some meaningful relationship. And don't make yourself obnoxious, there's no better way to fuck up a relationship.
You should act with intelligence. I did that and I had like a couple of girlfriends. Hell, I even rejected girls that tried to go out with me. It's not going to work every time for everybody but try it. Respecting the bad side, a little of conviction and honour always are great. You need to capitalise romanticism in the relationships. You have to make yourself the object of some kind of desire and people have to feel like they need to follow you. It's not going to be easy but is doable.
Why does no one want me? IIN
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I know the feeling. The feeling like you have it harder to connect. That you are always a side note. If you want to feel full just try to balance yourself. Pure goodness is bad, not a single person wants that. Search for an equilibrium. Make yourself mysterious. Bait the people into wanting to know more about you. For starters you could try to search people like you and try to develop some meaningful relationship. And don't make yourself obnoxious, there's no better way to fuck up a relationship.
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okay so I need a bit of bad in me too ? Where should I start?
I could learn subtle manipulation perhaps?
Maybe I'm boring and need a "bad side" lightly
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You should act with intelligence. I did that and I had like a couple of girlfriends. Hell, I even rejected girls that tried to go out with me. It's not going to work every time for everybody but try it. Respecting the bad side, a little of conviction and honour always are great. You need to capitalise romanticism in the relationships. You have to make yourself the object of some kind of desire and people have to feel like they need to follow you. It's not going to be easy but is doable.