If we are going to help you, we need more info. Firstly, do guys ever take initiative to talk to you? You must have tried online dating. Tell us more about that.
I just wished a lot of people admired me, wanted to spend a lot of time with me, even become infatuated with me.
I have pretty much always been treated as second best especially to the few I have invested in.
It's not all about dating but the fact people just aren't crazy about me.
Even people who think negatively will eventually get someone who becomes obsessed with them.
Why doesn't it happen for me
There could be hundreds of reasons. Eye contact is one of them. Projecting sexuality is another. My impression is that nobody notices you. I just don't have anything to go on.
I know the feeling. The feeling like you have it harder to connect. That you are always a side note. If you want to feel full just try to balance yourself. Pure goodness is bad, not a single person wants that. Search for an equilibrium. Make yourself mysterious. Bait the people into wanting to know more about you. For starters you could try to search people like you and try to develop some meaningful relationship. And don't make yourself obnoxious, there's no better way to fuck up a relationship.
You should act with intelligence. I did that and I had like a couple of girlfriends. Hell, I even rejected girls that tried to go out with me. It's not going to work every time for everybody but try it. Respecting the bad side, a little of conviction and honour always are great. You need to capitalise romanticism in the relationships. You have to make yourself the object of some kind of desire and people have to feel like they need to follow you. It's not going to be easy but is doable.
Why does no one want me? IIN
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If we are going to help you, we need more info. Firstly, do guys ever take initiative to talk to you? You must have tried online dating. Tell us more about that.
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Yeah but tbh it's not all about dating.
I just wished a lot of people admired me, wanted to spend a lot of time with me, even become infatuated with me.
I have pretty much always been treated as second best especially to the few I have invested in.
It's not all about dating but the fact people just aren't crazy about me.
Even people who think negatively will eventually get someone who becomes obsessed with them.
Why doesn't it happen for me
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There could be hundreds of reasons. Eye contact is one of them. Projecting sexuality is another. My impression is that nobody notices you. I just don't have anything to go on.
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What's projecting sexuality? Like being sexually confident?
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Okay. Start off with this link about eye contact with men. https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=kHPnT3aQlpY
Then try this one about feminine sexual energy. https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=_TXeTxD4kGU
Teasing? Flirting? Lots of videos on YouTube for that stuff too.
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Does it work with women?
I know the feeling. The feeling like you have it harder to connect. That you are always a side note. If you want to feel full just try to balance yourself. Pure goodness is bad, not a single person wants that. Search for an equilibrium. Make yourself mysterious. Bait the people into wanting to know more about you. For starters you could try to search people like you and try to develop some meaningful relationship. And don't make yourself obnoxious, there's no better way to fuck up a relationship.
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okay so I need a bit of bad in me too ? Where should I start?
I could learn subtle manipulation perhaps?
Maybe I'm boring and need a "bad side" lightly
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You should act with intelligence. I did that and I had like a couple of girlfriends. Hell, I even rejected girls that tried to go out with me. It's not going to work every time for everybody but try it. Respecting the bad side, a little of conviction and honour always are great. You need to capitalise romanticism in the relationships. You have to make yourself the object of some kind of desire and people have to feel like they need to follow you. It's not going to be easy but is doable.