Yeah, no. Fostering a child out causes them to feel abandoned and they’ll never forgive you. I know first hand because my birth mom abandoned me for adoption and put my brother in fostercare. I wasn’t even a brat and was just 3 and she abandoned me because she says she “couldn’t take care of me”. I know that’s bullshit because she did it to my brother too who was 9. We both hate her now.
I did read it. Her daughter is being very disrespectful to her. That doesn’t warrant putting her into fostercare. The problem with parents these days is they don’t want to take responsibility to actually train their kids. If your kid is being disrespectful, that’s your problem. You shouldn’t be dumping it off on to other people. And do know what made the kid settle down? How do know that school didn’t abuse him? Despite what they’re supposed to be, many of those places are not safe for children.
Take responsibility. Show your child that you are the boss. Actually care about and love them. Don’t hurt them and try to understand if they’re going threw something and be gentle, but also be firm in your rules and stick to them. Let your yes mean yes and your no mean no always.
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Yeah, no. Fostering a child out causes them to feel abandoned and they’ll never forgive you. I know first hand because my birth mom abandoned me for adoption and put my brother in fostercare. I wasn’t even a brat and was just 3 and she abandoned me because she says she “couldn’t take care of me”. I know that’s bullshit because she did it to my brother too who was 9. We both hate her now.
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I did read it. Her daughter is being very disrespectful to her. That doesn’t warrant putting her into fostercare. The problem with parents these days is they don’t want to take responsibility to actually train their kids. If your kid is being disrespectful, that’s your problem. You shouldn’t be dumping it off on to other people. And do know what made the kid settle down? How do know that school didn’t abuse him? Despite what they’re supposed to be, many of those places are not safe for children.
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Take responsibility. Show your child that you are the boss. Actually care about and love them. Don’t hurt them and try to understand if they’re going threw something and be gentle, but also be firm in your rules and stick to them. Let your yes mean yes and your no mean no always.