Why does my boyfriend hold my neck when we're walking?

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  • Practicing for what I would ask.

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    • Massaging apparently.

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      • massaging his own ego?

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        • Yeah, I think my natural instinct would be to crush an ego like that one.

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        • Possibly. Haha

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          • But it's oddly comforting when he holds my neck. It's as if it's his own way of saying "I'm here" but probably it also means something else for him

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      • Is that what he said?

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        • Yup. Not sure if it's an excuse for dominance or possibly even an aphyxiation or neck fetish.

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          • Hmm... if you're not comfortable tell him to stop. I guess it's just my personality, but I've never found overly dominant behavior attractive in other people. To be completely honest I do let my boyfriend smack me on the behind, but he's not an overly domineering person. I guess we kinda switch it up, but I certainly wouldn't think of us as being overly dominant or submissive on either end.

            I only like dominant behavior in Siamese Cats and Shetland Sheepdogs. And it's probably more assertive and in your face demands for affection than dominance and certainly not aggressive.

            I don't have a lot of patience for big egos.

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