I don't like persistence, because I don't like repeating myself. If tell someone no more than once, or twice about anything I'm going to get very annoyed, and tired of the person, because it is showing me a lack of respect. When I tell someone no I want the person to accept that I said no, and drop the issue the first time I say no!
So you don't mind persistence, huh? How would you like if Jehovah's Witnesses came to your door every day of the week? I mean "there's nothing wrong with persistence", huh?
If someone is clear that they will never want to sleep with you at any point, and want you to leave them alone then sure, leave them alone, but if that's not the case then asking at a later date isn't anything bad.
No, asking at a later date after the person has already said no is called harassment. If the person changed his, or her mind I'm sure the person would let me know. Being able to gracefully accept rejection is about having respect for other people.
When someone cannot take no for an answer it's a red flag of a not so nice person who doesn't respect me. I don't need people who don't respect me in my life!
That's a strawman point. The amount of women who are willing to sleep with men on the first date is very small. I believe I saw a study where it was about 7%. Whereas the percentage of men is significantly higher. Just because someone doesn't want to sleep with you if you don't know them very well doesn't mean they won't want to when you get to know them later down the road.
The point is that I can respect another person telling me no, and I expect other people to respect me telling them no as well. If the other person changes his mind I trust he will inform me.
Why does he want to take my virginity?
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I don't like persistence, because I don't like repeating myself. If tell someone no more than once, or twice about anything I'm going to get very annoyed, and tired of the person, because it is showing me a lack of respect. When I tell someone no I want the person to accept that I said no, and drop the issue the first time I say no!
So you don't mind persistence, huh? How would you like if Jehovah's Witnesses came to your door every day of the week? I mean "there's nothing wrong with persistence", huh?
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If someone is clear that they will never want to sleep with you at any point, and want you to leave them alone then sure, leave them alone, but if that's not the case then asking at a later date isn't anything bad.
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No, asking at a later date after the person has already said no is called harassment. If the person changed his, or her mind I'm sure the person would let me know. Being able to gracefully accept rejection is about having respect for other people.
When someone cannot take no for an answer it's a red flag of a not so nice person who doesn't respect me. I don't need people who don't respect me in my life!
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Fair enough. We disagree, but that's life I suppose. I respect your opinion, and you articulated it well.
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Right on! I'm glad you can appreciate how I express myself.
That's a strawman point. The amount of women who are willing to sleep with men on the first date is very small. I believe I saw a study where it was about 7%. Whereas the percentage of men is significantly higher. Just because someone doesn't want to sleep with you if you don't know them very well doesn't mean they won't want to when you get to know them later down the road.
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The point is that I can respect another person telling me no, and I expect other people to respect me telling them no as well. If the other person changes his mind I trust he will inform me.