Why do straight guys fear being gay so much?

Yep, some straight men are more masculine than others. But this idea that they should try to be more masucline than they would otherwise be, is where the problem is. Same thing with men shunning feminine qualities, the should not shun either masculine or feminine qualities, they should be themselves. Whatever they would be without any societal influence is ideal, and it so happens that hyper masuclinity is the stereotype mold that have to fit in, which results in this fear of being gay for striaght guys. That said, masucline guys shoud not try directly to be more feminine, which does happen when they connect with women somtimes. A straight guy can become more feminine without becoming more gay. So therfore guys shoukd not always associate feminine qualities with being gay. But being gay is nothing to be afraid of because it is feminine. Tge factvthat it is feminine is neither good or bad. Agree?