Despite what everyone says there is still a stigma.
Also I think people worry it changes the way their friends view their behaviour. Even if your friend isn't homophobic he may suddenly think you're coming on to him every time you make a gay joke or give him a hug if he suspects you are gay, and it could make things awkward. It's silly but some people still think this way.
I know it makes things awkward between guy friends. But then gay people want to be treted the exact same or else they get all pissed. And straight guys get hella weirded out when they think one of their friends might be gay and finds then attractive. Doesn't make sense to me.
It's not annoying it's just dumb. Solution - get over yourself. Not every gay man finds you attractive just as not every woman does. Just take it as a compliment anyway. If a woman is a attracted to me I don't feel threatened or weird. I just feel flattered. Think yourself lucky that someone actually finds you attractive.
It's not like you're going to have sex with them. I find most straight men are vile anyway. Mainly because of their attitudes.
A woman attracted to me as a straight man is different, because I am attracted to there gender. That is completely different than a gay guy showing signs of attraction to me. If a gay guy is getting too close for comfort and he knows I am straight, he needs to back the hell off, and that is his problem, not mine. You are also clearly biased since you "find most straight men vile anyway.." Are you gay and trying to get revenge on straight guys by telling them to get over it and that they are vile? Did some straight guys bully you for being gay in middle school or what? Because that is what it sounds like to me.
Why do straight guys fear being gay so much?
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Despite what everyone says there is still a stigma.
Also I think people worry it changes the way their friends view their behaviour. Even if your friend isn't homophobic he may suddenly think you're coming on to him every time you make a gay joke or give him a hug if he suspects you are gay, and it could make things awkward. It's silly but some people still think this way.
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I know it makes things awkward between guy friends. But then gay people want to be treted the exact same or else they get all pissed. And straight guys get hella weirded out when they think one of their friends might be gay and finds then attractive. Doesn't make sense to me.
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I just find it annoying that straight men think all gay men are coming on to them. Talk about conceited and paranoid. Get over yourselves.
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I'm sure it is annoying, but what is the solution? If I have a friend who is gay it is hard to not be a little weirded out at first.
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It's not annoying it's just dumb. Solution - get over yourself. Not every gay man finds you attractive just as not every woman does. Just take it as a compliment anyway. If a woman is a attracted to me I don't feel threatened or weird. I just feel flattered. Think yourself lucky that someone actually finds you attractive.
It's not like you're going to have sex with them. I find most straight men are vile anyway. Mainly because of their attitudes.
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A woman attracted to me as a straight man is different, because I am attracted to there gender. That is completely different than a gay guy showing signs of attraction to me. If a gay guy is getting too close for comfort and he knows I am straight, he needs to back the hell off, and that is his problem, not mine. You are also clearly biased since you "find most straight men vile anyway.." Are you gay and trying to get revenge on straight guys by telling them to get over it and that they are vile? Did some straight guys bully you for being gay in middle school or what? Because that is what it sounds like to me.