I would disagree. Don't you see a lot of straight guys defending themselves? Haven't you been around long enough on this site to see all the I'm straight but.... posts? There have been so damn many! It happens to many guys I know in real life also.
The irony of what you are saying is that gay men are actually very courageous strong people because they have had to stand up to a hateful world and say fuck you this is who I am and if you don't like it you can go to hell. That takes bravery, strength and wisdom. Whereas many straight men just live behind a facade of stereotypical external masculine characteristics never wanting to expose themselves as actual emotional human beings with fears and concerns like the rest of us. Despite their great efforts to appear "masculine" and fear of being perceived as weak they end up coming across as a bit pathetic really. It must get very tiring worrying about how you're perceived and making sure not to do anything "feminine". A "real" man would take a stand against the status quo. Stand up for the underdog. It's way more impressive than strutting around flexing your tattooed muscles pretending and wishing you were an alpha and hating fags.
A man who is completely comfortable within himself has no need to defend against the opinions of others and no need to attack or denigrate those who he believes to be weaker. A strong and wise man knows we are perhaps different but we are all equal.
Well I dont have tattoos and I dont strut around. You said alphas attack and denigrate gays but you attacked alphas in a way. We can agree to disagree. Plus my wife really doesnt like fruity guys. She gets turned off by feminine behavior. The feminine behavior just doesnt appeal to me at all. I dont have anything against people who are feminine. My favorite boss ive had at work was gay.
My gay friend was there for me when nobody esle was and that 9 inch penis WOW I couldn't take all it kept hitting the back of my throat I need a lot of practice.
I think the term "toxic masculinity" sums up what you describe, and it isn't only poisonous to women and relationships; it's harmful to the man himself and the other men he spends time with.
Women love masculinity. If you ask a girl what she finds attractive shes gonna describe a masculine man. Tall, good looking, confident, strong, successful.
I'm confused. So are you saying that liking guys is feminine and not gay? Or are you just replacing guys don't want to be gay, with guys don't want to be feminine? Or is it because the stereotype of gays is that they are feminine and guys think that is bad? Your making this complicated.
So if you believe feminine is weak you must therefore think women are weak. It's a sexist attitude. You obviously don' realise that gay and femininity are not the same thing.
When comparing women to men physically yes women are weak. It doesnt mean theyyre mentally weak. If im moving furniture i dont call girls to help. Im sexist? Im married and my wife doesnt work. I make all the money while she does whatever she wants. Hardly a sexist. Im not one of those MGTOW guys.
I see. I'm not sure its fair to say gays are feminine and weird. Depends how you define feminine a little I guess, but not weird. But if that' what you think then that's cool.
You can't win with people like this. He's been indoctrinated his whole life that gay means femme, weak and weird. He probably doesn't even know any gay people.
This is a misconception. You are equating being gay to being effeminate. If you actually knew gay people and didn't just have an image in your mind of them from the media you would know this is not true. Also this fear of being effeminate just shows that you are insecure about your own masculinity.
Lol my old boss was gay. Great guy. Insecure about my "masculinity"? Ahhh if you think so. Maybe you're right idk. Still dont want to start acting like a girl. My wife doesnt like feminine men anyway. Im pretty ok with myself.
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Idk i dont think they fear it they just ddont want to appear feminine
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I would disagree. Don't you see a lot of straight guys defending themselves? Haven't you been around long enough on this site to see all the I'm straight but.... posts? There have been so damn many! It happens to many guys I know in real life also.
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Because you dont want people to think youre girly, weak, feminine
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The irony of what you are saying is that gay men are actually very courageous strong people because they have had to stand up to a hateful world and say fuck you this is who I am and if you don't like it you can go to hell. That takes bravery, strength and wisdom. Whereas many straight men just live behind a facade of stereotypical external masculine characteristics never wanting to expose themselves as actual emotional human beings with fears and concerns like the rest of us. Despite their great efforts to appear "masculine" and fear of being perceived as weak they end up coming across as a bit pathetic really. It must get very tiring worrying about how you're perceived and making sure not to do anything "feminine". A "real" man would take a stand against the status quo. Stand up for the underdog. It's way more impressive than strutting around flexing your tattooed muscles pretending and wishing you were an alpha and hating fags.
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Well I dont have tattoos and I dont strut around. You said alphas attack and denigrate gays but you attacked alphas in a way. We can agree to disagree. Plus my wife really doesnt like fruity guys. She gets turned off by feminine behavior. The feminine behavior just doesnt appeal to me at all. I dont have anything against people who are feminine. My favorite boss ive had at work was gay.
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My gay friend was there for me when nobody esle was and that 9 inch penis WOW I couldn't take all it kept hitting the back of my throat I need a lot of practice.
You speak truth, Asatchi.
I think the term "toxic masculinity" sums up what you describe, and it isn't only poisonous to women and relationships; it's harmful to the man himself and the other men he spends time with.
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Women love masculinity. If you ask a girl what she finds attractive shes gonna describe a masculine man. Tall, good looking, confident, strong, successful.
There's nothing wrong with masculinity.
I'm confused. So are you saying that liking guys is feminine and not gay? Or are you just replacing guys don't want to be gay, with guys don't want to be feminine? Or is it because the stereotype of gays is that they are feminine and guys think that is bad? Your making this complicated.
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Im just saying why i wouldnt want to be gay. I dont want to come off feminine and weird.
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So you have a desperate need to conform to the cultural norm where you live, and you're obsessively interested in how others perceive you?
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I dont see whats wrong with cultural norms. Its not bad because its a cultural norm. Its also a cultural norm not to kill people and rape people.
Im not obsessed with how other perceive me or I wouldn't speak my mind as openly as I do. Lots of people dont like my opinions and I'm ok with that!
So if you believe feminine is weak you must therefore think women are weak. It's a sexist attitude. You obviously don' realise that gay and femininity are not the same thing.
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When comparing women to men physically yes women are weak. It doesnt mean theyyre mentally weak. If im moving furniture i dont call girls to help. Im sexist? Im married and my wife doesnt work. I make all the money while she does whatever she wants. Hardly a sexist. Im not one of those MGTOW guys.
I see. I'm not sure its fair to say gays are feminine and weird. Depends how you define feminine a little I guess, but not weird. But if that' what you think then that's cool.
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You can't win with people like this. He's been indoctrinated his whole life that gay means femme, weak and weird. He probably doesn't even know any gay people.
I always dismiss those as funny troll posts.
This is a misconception. You are equating being gay to being effeminate. If you actually knew gay people and didn't just have an image in your mind of them from the media you would know this is not true. Also this fear of being effeminate just shows that you are insecure about your own masculinity.
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Lol my old boss was gay. Great guy. Insecure about my "masculinity"? Ahhh if you think so. Maybe you're right idk. Still dont want to start acting like a girl. My wife doesnt like feminine men anyway. Im pretty ok with myself.