I think it's unhealthy you are still upset after all these years over what a colleague said about you. It happened at least 9 years ago.
We can't definitively say why that girl said what she said - we don't know her reasoning, we can't ask her. Our guess is as good as yours, or worse in fact. Not all women are the same, thus your three similar experiences may have been because of three distinct reasons. 'Why do women do this?' leads to the the kind of clichéd supposition you get in girly magazines ('What men are really thinking when they say 'I love you', What women really mean when they say 'you're pretty' etc.). It isn't beneficial and is only an opportunity to slag these girls off on your behalf, or in fact add to the confusion.
Find her and ask her if it is still bothering you after 9 years, or just move on. I vote the latter.
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I think it's unhealthy you are still upset after all these years over what a colleague said about you. It happened at least 9 years ago.
We can't definitively say why that girl said what she said - we don't know her reasoning, we can't ask her. Our guess is as good as yours, or worse in fact. Not all women are the same, thus your three similar experiences may have been because of three distinct reasons. 'Why do women do this?' leads to the the kind of clichéd supposition you get in girly magazines ('What men are really thinking when they say 'I love you', What women really mean when they say 'you're pretty' etc.). It isn't beneficial and is only an opportunity to slag these girls off on your behalf, or in fact add to the confusion.
Find her and ask her if it is still bothering you after 9 years, or just move on. I vote the latter.