Why do some women call shy male work colleagues gay?

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  • Why on Earth did you think that rating her looks would be "needed"? Ew.

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    • Erm... because the OP thought it might have been important? Looks are not separate from behaviour; sometimes people act differently if they're insecure about how they look, or try to exert dominance over people who look better or worse than them because of some feeling they have about how attractive they are. So the OP included it because it could have been important.

      Also, I completely fail to see how rating looks is either creepy or gross.

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    • Thank you for that. It really annoys me that the OP thought that was at all relevant to the discussion.

      When I talk about how other people treat me, I don't see how it's relevant if they're pretty/handsome or ugly. And isn't the OP himself whining about how people treat him based on his appearance? Isn't it a bit ridiculous to then turn around and rate others' appearances?

      Is it somehow worse to be thought gay by an "8/10 blonde" than by a "2/10 brunette," or is it okay if people ugly enough to be invisible think he's gay?

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