Why do some people make one trait their entire personality?

I noticed people tend to take a religion, a fandom, their spouse, their collection, their pets, their kids, their sexuality, political group, or hobby and make it their entire personality. They get so boring and annoying to hang out with that everyone abandons them because they're all tired of hearing about the same repetitive crap over and over. Some of these people that make one trait their personality get so angry if someone has a different opinion. Why do people do this?

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  • Iambillythemenacetosociety

    It's a way for unimportant people to try to make themselves feel important and interesting.

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  • ibrokemyds

    Because that’s the only personality trait they have. It’s kinda sad

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  • kikilizzo

    They are boring people who have no personality to speak of so they pick out one thing about themselves and build their entire identity around it.

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  • profanity

    They are pathetic and want to feel special.

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  • Tommythecaty

    Because social media turned their brains to mush and one trait is all they can develop and focus on.

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  • pronk

    because consumerism and false idols are what people like to attach themselves to when they do not have a spirit

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  • Anonnet

    It's not that crazy. People get consumed in their hobbies. If they don't do a lot of different things, they take that identity of "I do this".

    This can also happen if they do many things, but they're either ashamed of the other things they do or put tons of extra importance on one thing in particular. Like, you have tons of hobbies, but you really love skating = "I'm a skater." You spend a lot of time woodworking, but you're infatuated with this blog you just started = "I'm a blogger."

    Once that decision is made, it's actually kind of hard to break away from it. Depending on where it came from, it may require you to get interested in something else, or spend less time doing that thing. Think of it the same way as notoriety. If you got famous for doing something, how hard is it to become notable for doing anything else? DiCaprio will always be an actor, Hawk will always be a skateboarder, Bolt will always be a runner. It works pretty similarly in our own minds.

    We just tend to fufu it if that identity is too basic (the most frequent point of contention since it doesn't involve actually doing anything; basically "I'm a human") or sounds lame ("I'm a social media influencer").

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  • normal-rebellious

    It's because they decided on an identity and after some time, chose that as an identity.

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