Why do people think you can always talk to rude people?

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Some people think if a person is rude you can always talk to them about it and sort it out. However, that is not always the case. In some situations in your efforts to talk to the person you can also be seen as the problem.

Some rude people will not be talked to in this way. Why can't some people see talking it over while maybe ideal in the real world is not always practical?

I think if a person is rude you should always point it out. 1
Not sure. 1
I agree, you can't always bring it up. 3
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  • RoseIsabella
    6 years ago

    Attempt to avoid this bitch for a while if you can. Try to emotionally detach from her crazy ass with love. Accept that she's a douchebag, try to learn from the experience, and maybe even forgive her if you feel so inclined.

    Regardless, I think you need to distance yourself from people that don't treat you well.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      6 years ago

      Yeah, I mean she is not a terrible person and not as bad as some people are that is for sure but I do feel judged by her at times. There is another woman that has never judged me once.

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      • RoseIsabella
        6 years ago

        Well, there's no harm in taking and time out, because I personally think you need space from this person. It's good to have people who are honest and real around who will call you on your bullshit, we all need that, but if someone's just plain mean and rude you're probaby better off without em. Yanno?

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        • Anonymous Post Author
          6 years ago

          Yeah, it is not bullshit in this case. There is just no need for it on her part. Unless she does not mean it in a judgmental way who knows. I might just not talk to her unless she says something to me. Who knows I mean she comes across judemental sometimes and other times is nice and friendly. I have also caught her staring at my ass a few times also. So with all this I just have mixed feelings.

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          • RoseIsabella
            6 years ago

            In what way is she judgmental?

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            • Anonymous Post Author
              6 years ago

              Her laugh sounds judgmental. The way she laughs when you do and say some things that were not even meant to be funny in the first place. The other woman doesn't do this.

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  • RoseIsabella
    6 years ago

    I guess some people are way too naive and idealistic.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      6 years ago

      So what should I do. Just not making efforts to talk to her and if she talks to me she does but if not then who cares? Or what should I do?

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