Why do people mistake me for gay?

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I'm a normal avrage sexy monster guy (: just had to say that but anyways, People treat me like im just nothing like super infererior (Excuse my spelling)Everyday its, " Are you gay? or Gaywad" I love music its my life, i'm in choir, cheerleading, and i love to write stories about random stuff. Ex: one was about a dinosaur. No i dont dress gaily, i have a very high voice, Just about the top of the piano. (white keys) Most of my friends are girls but i dont really care. Yes, i am a feminine male but not a Man lady. I'm Bi-sexual but they dont know that. Why are they making inferences? I've never touched (sexually) or kissed a guy before.

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  • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress
    12 years ago | pl

    If they accuse you of being gay because you're on the cheerleading squad, just point out how many girls you get to have standing on your shoulders, giving you a good view of their panties.

    ;-)

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  • dappled
    12 years ago | pl

    I have a feminine side but I dress so badly, no-one would ever accuse me of being gay. My tip for today is: wear terrible clothes.

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  • kimmie43
    11 years ago | pl

    they ask if your gay because u act gay

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago | pl

    Your a metro sexual male. Which is a man who acts in the manner of a typical gay male. Basically, you talk, act, sound and do gay things.

    Also if your Bi-sexual, then you must be attracted to people of the same sex, which technically makes you a homosexual. Homosexuality is defined as romantic or sexual attraction to someone of the same sex. But if you haven't actually done anything with a guy yet, then you are possibly just confused.

    So, they aren't exactly wrong when they say your Gay. Yes its offensive and rude and unnecessary, and yes its not entirely accurate if you consider yourself Bi, but if you find yourself attracted to men, then you ARE homosexual.

    Just ignore these people. There is nothing wrong with being Homo, Bi, Metro or A Sexual.

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    • CrazyHazey
      12 years ago | pl

      Well Techinacally, im not homosexual because i do like girls im just sorta atrracted to this one guy at my school. Nobody knows im bisexual because im scared that they'll treat me EVEN worse. Should i just come out, Now or hide it?

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      • [Old Memory]
        12 years ago | pl

        Honestly bro, I wouldn't let these peoples words influence you. In my opinion, I don't think coming out would solve anything, it will probably just give them fodder.

        As someone who used to be what could be called a "Homophobe", the people who mock you and alienate you for being gay are probably the people who don't know you very well, or who don't understand. I used to be this kind of person, until I was in a situation where I actually got to know and spend time with some gay people. That experience made me grow up and I came to realize that just because some one is gay, doesn't mean they are different.

        The people who mock you are just ignorant. They don't understand that you probably watch the same tv shows and movies, probably listen to the same music etc as them. your sexual preference doesn't change that fact that your a normal person.

        If your SURE that you are Bi, I would suggest coming out to your close friends (I would recommend female friends) as these are the people the least likely to have their opinions of you changed.

        Just remember not to let other peoples words influence you. If your Gay, come out of the closet when your ready, not because of what people are saying to you. Don't rush into it.

        Also on a side note, I wouldn't go coming out just yet, because I probably wouldn't say that your definitely Bi. Being "sort of attracted to one guy" probably doesn't quite count as full on Bi. You might just be confused, or curious, neither of which really count towards Homo or Bi sexuality. It just means your curious. Depending on your age, this is a possibility. Also, seeing as you sound metrosexual, its possible that other peoples opinions, and cultural influence have lead you to believe that your gay.

        Hopefully you can sift through my bull shit and find something helpful in there. I tend to go on and talk out my ass.

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        • CrazyHazey
          12 years ago | pl

          Its not just that. Im Like Really Really REALLY sexually attracted to that one guy, and Attracted to MANY others. Idk?!?

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  • rayst
    12 years ago | pl

    Tell them your bi, its a little better than being gay lol

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  • asdf90091
    12 years ago | pl

    I mean this in the kindest way possible, you sound like the stereotypical gay guy for the most part. That's why they think you're gay. Kids always pick on those that are different because it makes them feel better about themselves.

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  • CrazyHazey
    12 years ago | pl

    hahh yeah, I try to tell them that i get to hang out and hold them in Great places, And they're all freaking sexy but they dont believe me. Its just annoying after like 7 years of this. Ever since 3rd grade. Ehh. (: got to go, Theatre performance. i get to be a mirror in a play and diss everyone. (sorry its my life. Obviously yall probabbly dont care)

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