I don't understand why I should have felt the need to look around more if I was satisfied with what I had. With that mentality, you'd never find anyone that is good enough. You'd find good and want to find better. You'd find better and you'd want to find better than that and it's not like people are like cars where you can just keep upgrading until you get the best and baddest model.
Eventually, you're going to either have to say "I am satisfied with this person" or say "I'll never be satisfied with anyone" and contrary to what a lot of people (namely, the SINGLE people on this website) think, you don't have to go through damned near every name in the phone book to meet someone that definitely satisfies you, beyond a doubt.
If you're thinking in terms of "settling" or "second best", like it's some competition and people should be competing to be good enough for you, then don't plan on ever settling and please don't get married. These kind of people skew the divorce statistics and make marriage and commitment look like a joke.
Why do people just take whoever is "there"?
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I don't understand why I should have felt the need to look around more if I was satisfied with what I had. With that mentality, you'd never find anyone that is good enough. You'd find good and want to find better. You'd find better and you'd want to find better than that and it's not like people are like cars where you can just keep upgrading until you get the best and baddest model.
Eventually, you're going to either have to say "I am satisfied with this person" or say "I'll never be satisfied with anyone" and contrary to what a lot of people (namely, the SINGLE people on this website) think, you don't have to go through damned near every name in the phone book to meet someone that definitely satisfies you, beyond a doubt.
If you're thinking in terms of "settling" or "second best", like it's some competition and people should be competing to be good enough for you, then don't plan on ever settling and please don't get married. These kind of people skew the divorce statistics and make marriage and commitment look like a joke.