I'm guessing you are in a 'relationship' with someone and it feels to you like you are always doing the running, the first to text, the one who always proposes meeting up, even the one who offers to help them with their problems etc? It can be tricky, are they attached to someone else romantically? If so just let it go, you're always going to come out second best, to be the afterthought. If they aren't in a relationship then perhaps you are not putting yourself forward in a positive light, are you somewhat defensive, lacking in confidence? There's no overnight fix for that but I'd suggest you get yourself more of a life than what you currently have, this will build your self esteem and in so doing this should make you feel less focused on this one person.
Why do one sided friendships and relationships happen?
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I'm guessing you are in a 'relationship' with someone and it feels to you like you are always doing the running, the first to text, the one who always proposes meeting up, even the one who offers to help them with their problems etc? It can be tricky, are they attached to someone else romantically? If so just let it go, you're always going to come out second best, to be the afterthought. If they aren't in a relationship then perhaps you are not putting yourself forward in a positive light, are you somewhat defensive, lacking in confidence? There's no overnight fix for that but I'd suggest you get yourself more of a life than what you currently have, this will build your self esteem and in so doing this should make you feel less focused on this one person.