Why feel insecure? The person your with is suppose to motivate you to do better even if you make it to their level. At least your making progress and obtaining personal goals along the way. You have to change your way of thinking. That person just might bring up the ranks with them. It’s like this, why waste your time thinking about who has more than you? If your doing what your doing to make progress, you won’t have any time to think about anyone else and what their doing.
Well I'd just feel like a total failure looking at all her success and comparing myself to her. Honestly if I ever got a girlfriend with a much more illustrious career than me, I'd want her to take zero interest in what I do for a living or in improving my situation. I'd feel like I'm letting her down then for having such a shit job and not being able to do any better, which again would make me worry she'd leave me for someone more successful, especially once she realises that all her encouragement and support doesn't make any difference.
Why do men have a problem with women making more money than they?
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Why feel insecure? The person your with is suppose to motivate you to do better even if you make it to their level. At least your making progress and obtaining personal goals along the way. You have to change your way of thinking. That person just might bring up the ranks with them. It’s like this, why waste your time thinking about who has more than you? If your doing what your doing to make progress, you won’t have any time to think about anyone else and what their doing.
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Well I'd just feel like a total failure looking at all her success and comparing myself to her. Honestly if I ever got a girlfriend with a much more illustrious career than me, I'd want her to take zero interest in what I do for a living or in improving my situation. I'd feel like I'm letting her down then for having such a shit job and not being able to do any better, which again would make me worry she'd leave me for someone more successful, especially once she realises that all her encouragement and support doesn't make any difference.