Why do i feel ugly until a guy compliments me?

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Why do I need those compliments?

I'm 21 years old and I don't know if I'm beautiful or not because the guys who compliment me are usually outgoing anyway.

I swear to you, I am not phising for compliments or trying to get as much negative comments as possible.

This is my physical description to the fullest. I am even including my "horrible" traits, okay?

Longish wavy Dark brown hair
Large almond-shaped hazel brown/green eyes
5'5
137 pounds
No acne or freckles, clear skin
Normal portioned nose/ears/eyes, etc. Nothing abnormal there..
I have some crooked teeth, but they are bright white.
I'm an average bra size.
I'm white.
I dress fashionable, but not over the top.
I usually where my hair down.

-I'm afraid to smile at times as I fear exposing my crooked smile. =/
-I'm generally outgoing
-When a guy flirts with me or compliments me, I don't flirt back..

That's it. So, do I sound like I'd be ugly or do I sound normal or pretty or bad or what?

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Comments ( 26 )
  • combatgal856
    13 years ago

    low self esteem maybe, so you seek approal from guys because you might feel they are the best judges

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  • anonymous999
    13 years ago

    You only described good features (except your teeth). No horrible traits. So I believe you are craving attention, even on the Internet. You only want praise isn't it? Besides how are we supposed to judge you without even seeing a picture? And isn't your personally also important? You know, guys like pretty girls, but they must be friendly too, not bitchy, otherwise we also dump them.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      13 years ago

      My personality doesn't matter because most guys flirt with me before I ever open my mouth, so why in heck would I waste my time making a full list of my personality?

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      • DADNSCAL
        8 years ago

        That's so sad, for you to describe your personality as a waste of time. You're fixated on your physical appearance and denying your inner beauty. My guess is that you were raised in a hypercritical environment and were put down so much that now you believe it.

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  • Yowegottashine
    9 years ago

    YOU ARE HOT! feelin' better now honey...

    Yo, since your white and the standardised picture of beauty derives from Eurocentric ideals, I can say you are pretty purely cause of your race. That's all.

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  • regisphilbin
    9 years ago

    you sound good.

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  • butterflies18
    11 years ago

    I have the same problem!

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    You sound good

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  • bodiewangler
    13 years ago

    Low self esteem. Figure out your precise and strengths and weaknesses and learn to love the whole damn package.

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  • inlove89
    13 years ago

    Loviex102

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      13 years ago

      What's the same name? I don't even have a sister in law and I really am 21.

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  • inlove89
    13 years ago

    It's the same name

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  • inlove89
    13 years ago

    Ur the same person who posted all those my sister in law hates me crap. In one you were 23 then 25 now you're 21 huh?

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      13 years ago

      Um. Huh??

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    You don't need a man to say that u are beautiful, just focus on the positive things and stuff you Like about you. And plus you sound very pretty (:

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  • texas1
    13 years ago

    Maybe you probably just have low self esteem and are probably just self conscious about your looks? Or youre probably not that confident as with the way your teeth look..idk.I think some girls feel this way about themselves these days with low self esteem becuase ive met a couple of them and have heard from others that they have low self esteem or either that girl I tried to get with I would tell her shes pretty or whatever and she would tell me not to tell her that because she doesnt feel pretty.

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    Carrie?

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  • BfingIToucher
    13 years ago

    Try to consider some deeper issues rather than obsessing about your appearance. What other more important things could you be doing instead of trying to figure out if you are pretty or not. Btw -- it sounds like you are just fine.

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  • supaflyafro
    13 years ago

    yeah wut luke said. u r sub conscience about ur teeth. if i had crooked teeth id feel the same way. if u dont want crooked teeth go to the dentist but if u dont wanna change them then dont. maybe r very attractive but with crooked teeth. my cousin is dating sum1 whos very attractive but she has an over bite but they still love each other. yeah u attract guys and the ones who know u r the ones who probably like u the most if u have a good personality

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  • lukex037
    13 years ago

    Sounds like you are just really self conscience about your teeth

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  • soccer2
    13 years ago

    U sound normal. I think a lot of ppl r like this. Everyone likes being told how pretty they r. And ibises to hate me smile cuz of my teeth. But now I don't care and I smile when I want to. I think it looks mode natural and I look happier. U can try it too

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  • aperson33
    13 years ago

    Purdy lol

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    You sound thicker than the types of girls I go for body wise but other than that ur ok

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    • crazykittens
      13 years ago

      Dude are you saying this chick is fat? I was 131 once and I wasn't chunky! I was a size small! Damnnn boy.

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  • inlove89
    13 years ago

    Stop opening your mouth

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      13 years ago

      Lol, I mean, I don't really say anything, but hi and a chuckle or whatever.

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