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I crush on people I cant have, but people who are interested in me who have the personality I'm looking for I feel 0 physical attraction for. Help please??
"Why do I crush on people I cant have?" Because you cant have them. We all (as a general rule) want things we cannot have. Be it a cat, house job, lifestyle, mate, etc. By not being able to attain whatever it is makes it more attractive.
Well, that happens a lot because the odds are that the people you fancy won't fancy you back and vice-versa. Eventually if you're lucky you and someone's crushes will line up and you'll fall in love. :-)
Be picky, have high standards, but understand as well that no one is perfect. Humans crave social interaction, so it comes as no surprise that we want to be around people that we find attractive. We are also highly impressionable creatures. Studies show we closely resemble our five closest friends. Set high standards for the people you give your time, but make sure today be a person worthy of their time, as well.
They say that confidence is sexy, and the only person you are guaranteed to spend your life with is yourself. Learn to love yourself, or change to become someone you love, and you will have unshakeable confidence that automatically attracts positive people to you.
Don't worry about whether or not they like you. Worry about whether or not you like them. Are THEY good enough for YOU? Just don't cross the line and become egotistical.
I have never been picky. They need to be clean, reasonable intelligence, not be a drug addict (weed is ok), not be hugely obese, prefer non smoker (cigarettes), sex is a must... actually I am picky cause I could go on and on.