Thanks for the helpful info ! It really helped a lot to clarify exactly what guys are into. I'm not saying I'm gonna change who I am but just alternate some of my habits.
What you described guys or he would like is probably the reason why he liked me in the first place. But then because I started really liking him, you can't help but get emotionally attached and want to make it work. So I have been annoying always confronting him bout what's bothering me and yes some things I do have a right to be upset about.
But lately, rather than confronting him in an emotional way, I'll confront him w a sense of humor and hell respond back rather than just leaving me hanging cause he doesn't wanna do anything w the convo.
But I barely tell him bout my problems out of the relationship. Its more between us. But you say that girls being too emotional is kind of a cry for attention and sympathy like blackmail in the eyes of guys? I mean I haven't really cried in front of him just confront him bout a lot of things and idk if he sees it as blackmail and not gonna fall for it or he just doesn't care to be a part of the conversation but he still wants to be w me. As long as he knows I'm not the average crazy looking girl I'm just crazy bout him and that's where all of this is coming from, then I'll be satisfied. So hopefully if I let him know about that, then hell understand and not run away from me and hell be back w the person he liked in the first place
Why do guys like girls who play hard to get?
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Thanks for the helpful info ! It really helped a lot to clarify exactly what guys are into. I'm not saying I'm gonna change who I am but just alternate some of my habits.
What you described guys or he would like is probably the reason why he liked me in the first place. But then because I started really liking him, you can't help but get emotionally attached and want to make it work. So I have been annoying always confronting him bout what's bothering me and yes some things I do have a right to be upset about.
But lately, rather than confronting him in an emotional way, I'll confront him w a sense of humor and hell respond back rather than just leaving me hanging cause he doesn't wanna do anything w the convo.
But I barely tell him bout my problems out of the relationship. Its more between us. But you say that girls being too emotional is kind of a cry for attention and sympathy like blackmail in the eyes of guys? I mean I haven't really cried in front of him just confront him bout a lot of things and idk if he sees it as blackmail and not gonna fall for it or he just doesn't care to be a part of the conversation but he still wants to be w me. As long as he knows I'm not the average crazy looking girl I'm just crazy bout him and that's where all of this is coming from, then I'll be satisfied. So hopefully if I let him know about that, then hell understand and not run away from me and hell be back w the person he liked in the first place