Why did i do that?

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I recently found out my best friend and my
Boyfriend (now ex) was screwing around behind my back. I was constantly told they were doing things and was showed pictures of them sitting very close. The situation was resolved but now a year later I found out it was very true. In revenge since she had just got out of a very bad break up I went to her ex boyfriend and gave him head. I regretted it after and so did he. Am I just a bad friend? Was getting a revenge normal?

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  • RoseIsabella
    7 years ago

    When it comes to cheaters I'm probably one of the biggest haters on here, but honestly I ain't mad at ya. He's her ex not her current boyfriend, and it sounds like she wasn't a true friend to you. I just think you have a strong desire to get back at her, because you want revenge. The best revenge would probably be to dump her nasty ass, and do your best to live a good life without her.

    I suppose if you really want revenge you could wait til she really needs you, and just not be there for her, then throw the cheating stuff in her face. Meh, that's probably pretty lame, cause it's better to just dump her as a friend. Let the universe sort it out, she'll get hers in time.

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    • Flutist_101
      7 years ago

      She admitted to it but when she did I can tell she had no remorse. She is a good friend so I forgave her but I guess I didn't if I did that! He was dating the guy at the time maybe the bad break up was her karma and I just made it worse.

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      • RoseIsabella
        7 years ago

        She doesn't sound like a good friend at all, especially if she has no remorse. You're not the bad guy here, girl!

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  • finn
    7 years ago

    I think it's safe to say that neither of you is a "friend" to the other. Giving a BJ is not an impulsive action. It's planned and thought out and takes time.

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    • Flutist_101
      7 years ago

      I was so angry and I did plan it

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      • you_go_glen_coco
        7 years ago

        Taking into consideration your username - I think putting something into your mouth probably comes like second nature

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        • Flutist_101
          7 years ago

          That's now it works, please don't disrespect my love for the flute.

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        • fluffy1uv
          7 years ago

          No

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  • SeriousChipotlePirate
    7 years ago

    Damn you fuckin' bad ass! :o
    But yes revenge is something people act uppon.
    You know, at least you didn't kill him...
    So that's good...
    Cheating is a bitch, it bites you in the ass and you wonder what to do with it. you chose to subdue it (is that the word?) with revenge which is fine, but you did do that when she was emotionally unstable. Kinda mean. Maybe A wee bit too much. but other than that i think it was a normal decision to make.

    PS. if you think you were a bad friend... think about that year that your friend never told you what she was doing with your ex. I MEAN COMMON! she broke the bro code and missed to tell you. How does that make her a good friend?

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  • buttholegaper
    7 years ago

    I think you were just looking for a reason to suck a cock, cock is delicious

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  • Idontknowtbh
    7 years ago

    thats a shitty way to get revenge lmao

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  • fluffy1uv
    7 years ago

    *person

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