I can relate to an extent. Although I'm still in high school, I've had a bad experience with an unreliable, untrustworthy group of people I used to call "friends". There's always going to be a time in someone's life when they feel that way. The best piece of advice anyone could give to you in that situation is don't think about it. As hard as that may seem, it is the most effective. You may be thinking, if I don't think about it and dont make an effort then how am I going to feel better? Well in my experience, if you don't over think about it, then your mind won't be working so hard to reconnect with the people you want to be closer to. It's best to keep in contact with them to an extent. Soon, you'll meet another person you have a lot in common with. Trust me, it's one of the hardest things to do but when you get through it you'll be so much stronger. Loneliness is a killer. But when you get through it you will be more confident in dealing with the negative people in your life.
Thanks a lot for the reply. I know it may just be a phase of life. If I dont find company, I try to do things I enjoy by myself and not think about it much. Just wish I could find a good friend soon. Hope things improve for you soon, if they are not good already.
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I can relate to an extent. Although I'm still in high school, I've had a bad experience with an unreliable, untrustworthy group of people I used to call "friends". There's always going to be a time in someone's life when they feel that way. The best piece of advice anyone could give to you in that situation is don't think about it. As hard as that may seem, it is the most effective. You may be thinking, if I don't think about it and dont make an effort then how am I going to feel better? Well in my experience, if you don't over think about it, then your mind won't be working so hard to reconnect with the people you want to be closer to. It's best to keep in contact with them to an extent. Soon, you'll meet another person you have a lot in common with. Trust me, it's one of the hardest things to do but when you get through it you'll be so much stronger. Loneliness is a killer. But when you get through it you will be more confident in dealing with the negative people in your life.
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Thanks a lot for the reply. I know it may just be a phase of life. If I dont find company, I try to do things I enjoy by myself and not think about it much. Just wish I could find a good friend soon. Hope things improve for you soon, if they are not good already.