Why can't i stop...

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Okay, so I have an amazing boyfriend. Best I've ever had really, and I don't know what it would be like if I didn't have him around. He was my best friend and everything before we started dating. But anyway, the point is, there's this other guy at school, he's black, and really cute. One of the cutest black guys I've ever seen. He's kind of like this creamy color its really nice... so anyway, I can't stop keeping a tag on him like when I see him and thinking about him. But the thing is, I don't know him at all. I've sat by him before and he's quiet, like me, and I've heard he's really sweet. And he's got these amazing green eyes with some other color, I haven't been able to identify what it is yet, I try not to look at him, don't wanna freak him out. I also feel really bad that I think about him at all because I have a boyfriend who treats me so well. It would kill him if he knew this, which is why I just try to push him out of my head, but sometimes, I can't. And sometimes I feel like my thoughts are my thoughts, and I'm free to think what I want, so why not? And I also feel like if I don't think about him I'm completely shutting out my options... but the thing is I know thats what I need to be doing. So anyway, when I like someone I don't usually dream about them unless I really like them and I've already dreamt about him two nights in a row, maybe three. And to me, thats alot. So, ignore him? Talk to him, see what happens? Am I a horrible person? Please write whatever you think I don't care how much you insult me, I think I need it. And I desperately need feedback. Oh and as a side note I think one of the reasons thats making me like him so much it because he's black (I'm white) and I'm a very curious person, I've never dated a black guy before

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  • Destinee
    13 years ago

    I would say, maybe talk to him and just become friends and get to know him first. Then if you start to really like him, break up with your boyfriend.

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  • John__Cena
    6 years ago

    Sounds like you dont really love your boyfriend or else you wouldnt be asking this question in the first place. Do him a favor and leave him before he gets too attached. You clearly see no future with him and if he really was your best friend then you would care enough to leave him.

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  • godsdude
    13 years ago

    im not geting involved....

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  • Joce_29
    13 years ago

    yeah your probably right :)

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  • ladeda123
    13 years ago

    honestly, i think you just want him soo bad is because you don't know him, and you DON'T have him. :P
    I had a crush like that at my school once, I'd barely even talked to the kid, but i had a crush on him for quite a while. i could honestly count on one hand the number of times i'd talked to him. i had a boyfriend at the time, but i still liked him. i eventually got over it. because it was just a school crush. :P i think the only reason i wanted him was because i didnt have him, and he was kinda mysterious to me, because he was soo quiet.

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  • thewhitesheepnexttotheredone
    13 years ago

    I think that as humans we weren't meant to just stay with one person. So it might not actually be you that likes him, but your genetic make up talking. See as humans we're supposed to be attracted to someone that shows a very high possibility of fertility to make a child. I would just let your self think about this other guy and talk to him because maybe you'll like him more that your current boyfriend. Plus it wold be unfair to your boyfriend to be with him when you're not as committed as he is. There's nothing wrong with that, so just let whatever needs to happen happen.

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  • Joce_29
    13 years ago

    I would never date anyone 'just cause' or because they're white or black or asian or whatever. Thats dumb. I said it could be one of the reasons I'm so curious and attracted to him.. ONE of the reasons..

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  • DJTEEL
    13 years ago

    i don;t have an answer..you sound like a wayyy young kid..if you're dating him cause just he's black..it's a waste of time.don't date just to be diverse.there's better reasons

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    lol seriously he does. he's a very light black, creamy like i said...

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  • inlove89
    13 years ago

    I like how you really made it a point that he's black lol. Sounds like you just wanna bang a black dude.

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  • yaknowww
    13 years ago

    He ain't black if he got green eyes

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  • soccer2
    13 years ago

    Well become his friend. But don't flirt or anything in case ur current bf wouldn't like it. See where it goes but if u feel like u wanna be with the other guy then end things with ur current bf. Just rememberto say fair to him

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