Why can't i orgasm? iin?

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Before I became sexually active I would masturbate regularly and always orgasmed. Now that I'm sexually active, I haven't been able to orgasm while having sex with my boyfriend. Sometimes I'll get the feeling that I'm about to cum but I never do. It really bothers me that I can't. I've also noticed that since I've become sexually active; when I masturbate sometimes I can't reach an orgasm, or I'll feel the climax but it doesn't last as long as it used to and/or doesn't feel as great as it used to. Is it normal that I can't cum with my boyfriend? And is it also normal that my orgasms aren't as great as they used to be? Does anyone have any suggestions? Or possibly know why?

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  • (s)aint
    10 years ago

    What do get you off when you are masturbating? Use these thoughts and try to come up with how to apply them to your sex-life.
    Watching porn meanwhile or spicing things up in your head could work wonders too.

    It all depends on your preferences, really!

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  • nawtyalice
    10 years ago

    maybe you aren't relaxed or comfortable enough? if you are, you should just have a quick visit to the doctor to rule anything out. if that's all good, it might just be series winning and losing. find the right technique and keep trying

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  • Unimportant
    10 years ago

    Nature made a lot of men being able to cum very quickly, and a lot of women being able to cum only after a hard, exhausting effort, just to mess with us.

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