Yeh I find the age difference really weird as well. I mean hey go for it I guess, you never know, but you can kinda hedge your bets that the girl is gonna blow you off AND think you are perverted for trying. Especially if you arent a good looking 50 and the 20 yr old is a good looking 20.
At least you respect it as a compliment and dont run away at persistence. I wouldnt even bother with persistence, part of it would be ego, like yeh okay you arent interested? Thats fine BUT I certainly aint gonna bother again. But a bigger part of me is just afraid of looking like a creepy persistant weirdo, like the girl is gonna be like "Leave me alone you psycho!"
Yeah, to be honest, when a guy keeps bothering me with his advances (following me, constantly interrupting conversation between myself and my other friends, especially when I am doing other things) and I have already made it clear that I am not interested (at this point, all I should have to say is "sorry, I have a husband") then I do start to think he might have something wrong with him.
At which point I am more concerned for my safety if anything. Then it gets awkward. I had to go to school in my security uniform the other day and some guy (he was cute) asked me for a strip search and was going to let me... and I tried to be as non-awkward as possible but uh... yeah that gets awkward. Especially since he has seen me with my husband.
Why are relationships and dating such a hassle?
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Yeh I find the age difference really weird as well. I mean hey go for it I guess, you never know, but you can kinda hedge your bets that the girl is gonna blow you off AND think you are perverted for trying. Especially if you arent a good looking 50 and the 20 yr old is a good looking 20.
At least you respect it as a compliment and dont run away at persistence. I wouldnt even bother with persistence, part of it would be ego, like yeh okay you arent interested? Thats fine BUT I certainly aint gonna bother again. But a bigger part of me is just afraid of looking like a creepy persistant weirdo, like the girl is gonna be like "Leave me alone you psycho!"
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Yeah, to be honest, when a guy keeps bothering me with his advances (following me, constantly interrupting conversation between myself and my other friends, especially when I am doing other things) and I have already made it clear that I am not interested (at this point, all I should have to say is "sorry, I have a husband") then I do start to think he might have something wrong with him.
At which point I am more concerned for my safety if anything. Then it gets awkward. I had to go to school in my security uniform the other day and some guy (he was cute) asked me for a strip search and was going to let me... and I tried to be as non-awkward as possible but uh... yeah that gets awkward. Especially since he has seen me with my husband.
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And those are the weird ones.
I mean a strip search?? Talk about lame. Would it have worked if you were single?
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No, I hardly knew him. I'm not going to frisk someone I don't know.