Why are relationships and dating such a hassle?

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  • no offense to the two comments above me but we all know they are full of shit! You are totally right about how women act. I am a 25 year old woman who is well above average in the looks department, also like you..not arrogant but I know I am.. I have actually been told I look somewhat like miss upton. anyways I had a boyfriend for 5 years and anytime he forgot our anniversary I would flip shit. I wouldn't actually tell him "hey you as* you forgot what today is" No, I would just be pissy and give him the cold shoulder until he finally figured it out on his own. Now that I'm single and older/wiser I have realized that I was just insecure in our relationship. I have not entered a new relationship yet so I'm unsure of how I will act during the next round but I can tell you, I'm almost positive that I would still get annoyed with my guy for forgetting. On another note, when it came to gifts I never cared as much for that but always felt extremely appreciated when my guy got me a card and wrote a short sweet message. Most woman need constant reminders that they are loved and that is it... so it has little to do with the gifts and more to do with the words and actions. keep that in mind and I think you'll get a better reaction .. oh and about the "creepster status" just for talking to women well you need to know that woman are bit*hes, Even when I try making friends with a female near my age she gives me the cold shoulder and looks at me like I'm some crazed lesbian.. I say F her and the cow she rode in on.

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    • I don't even remember my anniversary. I'd have to ask HIM. And if he didn't remember, well, we have a marriage certificate somewhere. It's not a big deal to me, it may sound like I am full of shit but honestly? I don't even care much to celebrate my own birthday unless someone else wants to. I have things that I must place on a higher priority than that and so does he. We're busy people.

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    • Thank you for admitting it AND giving me a real response without sounding like a stuck up bitch at the same time. I can understand the annoyance at the date being forgotten, what I dont understand is how the day has become basically a day for women, when its supposed to be an "our" day thing? The little things are understandable, like a nice card with something sweet from the heart, but why does something like that have to be constant? And when I say constant I mean like every week or some shit. I can easily do something like that every month and not have a problem with it or expect anything back in return. What I am saying is isnt it mostly enough I am here, being loyal, not womanizing, not out drinking, not gambling our finances away?? You know dumb shit like that.

      I also dont understand how some women have to cause some kinda drama or something in a relationship when everything has been going smoothly, its like well its been good for 3 weeks, time for a small fight, and its about some stupid shit like the microwave being dirty after I used it or whatever. I mean what the fuck already? If she used it and it got dirty and I had to use it next I would just clean it, why bust balls over something so stupid??

      The making friends thing I understand, if you look like what you said, which I would bet you do, then that woman or women are jealous, plain and simple.

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