Why are other women always challenging me?

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Every time i tell a woman something personal about me that's sexy, or really freaky, or perverted, or something relating to sex. They get really offended and i can see it in their faces because they support their expressions with comments like this, "Oh, well blah blah blah. and blah better than that, ha."
My first questions is; how does the next women know how good it is to me if she never experienced what i did?
Is it just bad conversation, she doesn't know how to convert with another women? or what? because it's getting worse by the conversation. some women actually start the conversation off with a challenge. they wouldn't even give me the chance to say hello, how are you? Is it me or is this competitive action?

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  • NeuroNeptunian
    10 years ago | pl

    I sincerely didn't understand your question. Can you give me an example without the blah blah? I don't understand what you're asking. Like challenge to what, a dick sucking contest...? A drag race? A boxing match? Are you a boxer? Do you own a really souped up sports car?

    I had a friend who just, out of the blue, would tell me about what she did with who last night. All I could do was nod and smile. Otherwise ask strange questions, like "how deep was he inside you"? when I really just had no interest at all in the conversation in the first place. Wtf was I supposed to say, congrats? Come on, now...

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    • Lovestobelicked
      10 years ago | pl

      Hahaha! exactly. you basically just clarified it. It's just like that except told in a more competitiveness way. Like an aggressive voice. But i think your friend was just trying to spice up the conversation. Some women have no idea what to say to other women when it comes to quality conversation.

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      • NeuroNeptunian
        10 years ago | pl

        Ah, depends on your view of a quality conversation. I don't consider sexual topics to be a necessity to a quality conversation. Are you talking challenging someone to spout off a better sexual experience like, "I had better dick than you"...? (Not in such a blunt manner but you catch my drift). Like, I challenge you to top this shit?

        My friend was odd, I don't think her intention was to make things more lively. We've spoken of sexual topics before and compared sexual experiences but when it comes to just completely off the wall "I got fucked last night omg" when we're talking about baking? The fuck?

        Am I making sense?

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        • Lovestobelicked
          10 years ago | pl

          yeah. That's my point. The whole "my man's better than your man in bed" kinda thing. and the conversation isn't always about sex and she comes out of nowhere with it! last month i told her how good my man was at oral and i told her how he turned me upside down when he did it and got a little graphic i'll admit, then like two days later i'm at the mall with her and i'm talking about buying new shoes and she's like "oh remember when you told me...well last night my man did this and i wasn't upside down i was spread eagle and it was better then you said yours was.." you get it? and i was just kind of like...oooh ok? what about those shoes though? Ha. And i'm kind of wondering like did i offend her with my sexual experience? is she challenging me?

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  • dirtybirdy
    10 years ago | pl

    Simple. Women are bitches especially to other women. Are you a sexy bitch? They may be jealous.

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  • suckonthis9
    10 years ago | pl

    It is because these other females are competing with you, for sexual advantage.
    It is best not to speak of these types of issues, with sexually insecure females, as it often leads to these types of negative behaviours.
    Instead, you should communicate these thoughts with males. We love them (usually, but not always).

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  • SuperBenzid
    10 years ago | pl

    These women see you, at least subconsciously, as a sexual competitor hence they instinctually feel feelings of insecurity, jealousy and anger when you reinforce that you are a sexual competitor by talking about it. Also some people are just unfriendly in general. If you look around though you will meet people that are on your level.

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  • davesumba
    10 years ago | pl

    Some things should be kept in the bedroom.

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  • KeddersPrincess
    10 years ago | pl

    Because most females are constantly comparing themselves to other females. Why? I have no fucking idea, but it annoys the living hell out of me!

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  • GreyWulfen
    10 years ago | pl

    Women can be bitchy about things.
    I'm a guy, so I don't understand this at all. :P

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  • Geneva5
    10 years ago | pl

    You swallow loads every 10 minutes at a truck stop to feed yr crack habit - and you think we give a duck ????!

    An hero for you !

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  • squeallikeasacofpigs
    10 years ago | pl

    If you know other chicks do this, they why don't you stop telling them sexeh type things? I actually know a girl a little bit like that, who tells other girls about all the sex shit she gets up to. They don't like it because they don't fucking care and they don't want to know. Probs a similar case.

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  • 1000yrVampireKing
    10 years ago | pl

    What are you asking them exactly like "What color is their underwear" since I do not think every woman is going to laugh at that. Stop telling them things you think are sexy. They probobly do not want to hear it.

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  • ccjigsaw
    10 years ago | pl

    I had this the other day... I think? Since I'm not 100% sure what you're talking about. I got a job a while ago when I finished my coarse, a few girls from the coarse got jobs as well. I was chatting with one of them from the coarse, and I mentioned that some days I don't feel like I'm doing very well at the job. As the job is very intellectually trying at times, and I don't always know the answer. You could sense she wanted to say me to, but it she wanted to keep her pride lol She did eventually say it, then we got into a good convo about the good and the bad of the job, but she was so reluctant to admit her weaknesses lol We're all new at this, so of coarse we still have things to learn. It's fine to admit it! lol

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  • Fabulous
    10 years ago | pl

    I like any woman so they have nothing to worry about. I'd jizzhang you and anyone else

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