Female here. I think it's 50/50 between two reasons and sometimes a combination of both; they think that's all they deserve, and/or they're in love with the idea of the person and can't or won't see the reality of how shitty they are. Even if they do realize it, they'll keep trying out of insecurity or guilt.
Also, you might want to relax about the whole thing and just take a more laid back stance on relationships. Girls can sense that kind of thing, you'll seem more appealing. And you'll be more worry free. Two benefits in one, it's like bogo. If that "amazing" girl is out there, she'll come to you and not the "idiots" anyway right? Or you might want to start being around women who are more secure and independent.
Why are most of the ladies into dumb guys?
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Female here. I think it's 50/50 between two reasons and sometimes a combination of both; they think that's all they deserve, and/or they're in love with the idea of the person and can't or won't see the reality of how shitty they are. Even if they do realize it, they'll keep trying out of insecurity or guilt.
Also, you might want to relax about the whole thing and just take a more laid back stance on relationships. Girls can sense that kind of thing, you'll seem more appealing. And you'll be more worry free. Two benefits in one, it's like bogo. If that "amazing" girl is out there, she'll come to you and not the "idiots" anyway right? Or you might want to start being around women who are more secure and independent.