Why are all the lesbians in my facebook group, unattractive?

I'm femme seeking femme and most the women in this facebook group are either overweight, butch or just plain scary. Where are the cute femme ones gone :/
Also most are way older or in their 40s

NOTE- I am femme and a slightly built, 5 "6 and 52kg. I would rate myself a 7 when dressed up with a small amount of make up

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  • leggs91200

    My room mate dates women and yes, most of the ones who hit on her are either as old as Grandma Moses or they look scary by MEN'S prison standards. Super butch, super heavy, bald...

    But yeah as cuntsickle mentioned - attractive people are typically taken. Ugly people like myself usually have to struggle and are usually single. This goes for gay or straight.

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  • Cuntsiclestick

    It's because the attractive ones already have somebody.

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    • So dam true, the admin of a different lesbian group is rather pretty, and shes femme. Actually she's definitely the type I'd date but she has a rather plain looking gf, dam she is taken but her gf is lucky and punching above haha

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      • What am I meant to do now, cause i cant just date someone I dont feel attraction with but I feel theres little options. I went to a lesbian meet up 2 weeks ago, and there was one okay ish looking lass. Still not my type bor in personality. A lot of the women were taken too. So I definitely feel my chances of finding a cute lass are looking glum

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        • Cuntsiclestick

          I'd say try a few dating websites, but when I used them, the women I messaged saw I was bisexual and either assumed I was a straight person faking it or I'd cheat on them. They also seemed to usually have something mentally wrong with them. Maybe you'll have better luck on those sites than I did?

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          • Trust me gal, I tried ALL the dating sites EVER

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            • Cuntsiclestick

              Then take a break for a few months and try searching again. Maybe by then new people will pop up?

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  • jethro

    Perhaps all of the people in your facebook group say the same thing about you? We tend to overlook our own deficiencies and squint when looking in a mirror. If you live your life in facebook, then you get what you get. #quityourbitching.

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    • Na I'm not unattractive but I'm not a bombshell. I definitely attractive and I only met one other lez who's pretty

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      • jethro

        If you say so.

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  • LloydAsher

    Are you sure those fat lesbians were 100% lesbians. Or are they resorted to scavenging due to lack of options.

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    • SwickDinging

      I have wondered this

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    • Good question to which I am unsure about

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  • Nikclaire

    I think most people are unattractive in general, not just lesbians. Have you been to a Wal-Mart recently?

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    • What’s your type?

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      • Nikclaire

        My type?? Girls who love animals, are honest and loving and who understand there I times I need to be left to myself and God.

        Why???

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        • I was just curious since you said most people are unattractive, I was just curious what type of people you like then.

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          • Nikclaire

            Nice people

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            • I don’t blame you

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            • I’m glad to hear that!

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    • I live in a small country,and no actually, I seen lots of attractive and femme girls in pics who attend these lesbian clubs that are on once a month

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      • Nikclaire

        Where do you live? Lichtenstein?

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      • Nikclaire

        By femme girls do you mean lipstick lesbians?? Go to any Starbucks. Almost any girl there is gay and they are way cute.

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        • I cant say I can go upto a random lass and hit on her at star bucks haha thanks for the tip though lol and yes lipstick lez. Met one other day but shes engaged! Fml..shes so cute and cant help but flirt

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  • TerriAngel

    Location matters.
    It just does.
    I travel a bit.
    I check things out while Im there.
    Some areas it really is slim pickings.
    While others, its an all you can eat
    champaine brunch.
    Consider your location.

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  • LOLFanProductions

    Instead of judging how people look, maybe get to know them

    Being ugly on the outside is better than having an ugly personality tbh

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    • No way, not my type at ALL

      I have to be some what attracted to their appearance

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      • LOLFanProductions

        You need to grow the hell up then

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        • I have grown the hell up. Sorry mate but I have a preference and i cant change who I'm attracted to

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  • I agree with stain, a lot of social media stars and youtubers who are gay are the attractive ones— the other 99% are ehhhhh

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    • No that's one persons mere perspective.
      I seen tons of hot lezzies and especially at this leaning club thing that's on every 2 months but I'm yet to go

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      • Then that’s your mere perspective

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        • It's not just a perspective because unlike you, I have seen it with my own 2 eyes. Assuming every LGBT person is unattractive besides people via social media or celebrities, is just simply ignorance and stupidity. I could easily say that about men. Most the hottest men are celebrities.
          In the real world 99% are sex freaks who cheat or they are just plain looking/average

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          • Bad101

            So why can't you find an attractive single lesbian then, maybe change your title of your post to from "all lesbians" to "some lesbians"? Lol Just curious no hate.

            Celebrities in the past a way hotter sadly. The ones today if they weren't celebrities alot would be rated average or just a little above like a 7. Celebrities are so over rated now days lol.

            Also kinda agree with TLK, but in the aspect that I noticed foreign lesbians are hotter, they look more like straight chicks(much less butch).

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          • And so have I, i’m not saying they don’t exist. i’m saying they’re not in the majority much like what you’re saying in your post. Actually, exactly like what you’re saying.

            And saying things like “with my own 2 eyes” doesn’t help your case.That only again affirms that it’s your mere perspective. Because eyes are quite small, much like your tolerance and understanding.

            I feel sorry for you OP, not everything is a threat, most of the time they are just offers to communicate to gain insight on another persons point of view. Wish that could’ve happened here, but I’m not gonna argue with a troll like you.

            I can’t beleive you’d pist something basically saying “why are all the lesbos scary and ugly and old?” and then turn around and maul anyone who AGREES.

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  • curious-bunny

    I've noticed that as well, I'm no curious and girls they interest me but like idk I just haven't been pulled in yet. I've known a few to try but they were the fat types and it's just like nooop, I'm not saying I'm a ten or anything craxy like that I'm not, I'm a 6 or 7 depebding on the day. But most these lesbians are like 3 or 4 tops and it's like yea so so not my type. All the power to then I hope they find someone but they need to learn my semi curious butt ain't interested in a slug as we call our one coworker, mean i know but if you see her you'd understand, she sits there like a slug looking like a slug. Only thing missing is a slime trail no joke

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    • Omg you actually made me lol

      Most lez who like me are 3 or 4 as well and I have always thought I'm a 7 on my best days. Sucks

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  • WeirdGuyFromTheSouth

    Ive always looked for a hot lesbian chic for my wife to mess with. Its hard to find if you dont pay them. Most lebians are ugly.

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  • californiabob

    Yes, the same way that most fat ugly women are with African males because most white guys don't want them. Them darkies sho like dem white women!

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  • Meowypowers

    It is likely because the butch bitches are the most agro and any cute lipstick hottie doesn't join a group.

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    • Haha true

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  • tobey-kitty

    sorry if I’m wrong but aren’t there dating apps for certain sexualities? maybe you could have a better chance of finding someone on there

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    • Na they are bs, I tried them all and despite getting a lot of matches, hardly anyone talks and if they do, they either want a pathetic three some, just looking for fun or for friends or see where it goes but no one bothers to indulge in decent conversation so after over a whole entire year or more, I decided to not waste any more of my precious time

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  • Cause real life aint the movies

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