Why am i still single at 25?

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I am 25 tomorrow and literally never had a relationship, not even when I was in my teens did I fool around or even date for that matter. I never expected to be on the road towards 30 and have 0 experience. I'm quite disappointed tbh, everyone around me is eithe rin a relationship, engaged or married. I know, I know, dont compare and dont try to hard. Thing is, if I dont seek, how will I ever find anyone since not only do I develop a crush rarely but I also want a relationship with a female and I'm a woman. I want to at least date or kiss a lass to see if I really am gay and not just asexual either since I'm not sexually driven. I have tried ALL means to find someone. LGBT meet ups, lesbian meet ups off Facebook, lez clubs and dating sites. So now what? I work alone or with my family. I am broke despite working so also dont get out much

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SkullsNRoses

4 years ago

Relationships are drama and being single is valid. Statistically 50% of your engaged/married friends are gonna divorce anyway in about 12 years. Focus on finding happiness on your own instead of desperately seeking it out in another woman. No one else is going to fix you.

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  4 years ago
  
  Yeah I know they wont all last but still
  
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19sammi91

4 years ago

I was 26 before I got my bf... have you tried kik or skout?? Plenty on lesbians on skout (seems like it anyways) and couple be groups on kik

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  4 years ago
  
  Na dont have that in my country and fuck apps
  
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Lestat565

4 years ago

Your likely a cunt. Who the fuck cares.

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  4 years ago
  
  Na I ain't a cunt, I am a good cunt
  
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  - Lestat565
    
    4 years ago
    
    You just accentually said your not a cunt your a cunt. Not a smart cunt are you.
    
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      4 years ago
      
      I said I am a GOOD cunt
      
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BlackCandle

4 years ago

Calm down.There's still time.

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  4 years ago
  
  No, I am on the road to age 30
  
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1ne8ight7even

4 years ago

Probably because you're an ugly bastard or fat.

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  4 years ago
  
  No I am skinny and pretty
  
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  - AMERICANsavage
    
    4 years ago
    
    Why dont you like men any? Just wondering. I saw your comment that you said you go to LGTB meetups and men are pigs. You dont really believe ALL men are pigs do you?
    
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    - Anonymous Post Author
      
      4 years ago
      
      Yes ofc they are, females are way nicer. I like their softness more physically and emotionally
      
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      - AMERICANsavage
        
        4 years ago
        
        Thats super ignorant to me (ALL men are pigs). Thats a very narrow minded view. Its not that black and white. What if the man cures cancer and donate tons of money to charity? Your logic is kind of too emotionally charged.
        
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        4 years ago
        
        No it is black and white sorry to break the ice
        
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Doesnormalmatter

4 years ago

Because you have not tried enough.

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  4 years ago
  
  What's enough? Lol
  
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LloydAsher

4 years ago

Do you actually have a career? Or are you just jumping from one job to the next? Guys dont like women that cant go 50% unless they are punching higher then what they expected to get.

If you dont have a career, go into welding there are always a need for welders especially female ones filling the female quotas in shops.

Start from the basics. Stop being poor, the job market is hot right now so it shouldn't be too much trouble for you to drag yourself out of being broke. Two get on some dating websites like eharmony or get bumble. Three dont deviate from the list, sure prince charming might scoop you up and you will never need to work again... or more likely you need a career first and then start thinking about picking up a boyfriend or something.

Also a bonus with the career part, you will spend enough time with people to work up some good old fashioned sparks.

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  4 years ago
  
  LGBT MEET UPS!!! I am NOT STRAIGHT! Can you read??
  
  Man you're either dumb or just illiterate. I tried ALL dating sites and I don't want a guy, I want a girl. Men are pigs. Fyi, I have a job and broke, people can still have a job but still be struggling
  
  Ffs
  
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