No offense but, do you give off a bitter, sad, clingy, or desperate vibe? I don't know how I learned this(probably from the many people I met with online), but I've learned to sense when a guy or gal is like this within the first ten seconds. When I stayed on the date, I was usually proved right and I'd never call this person again. Dealing with baggage is the worst.
Na in fact I am super cautious not to be clingy as I know how epidemically that's a known factor. Also, my sis who's younger than me found someone and he is super clingy. Wants to see her every 2 days literally and she doesn't find that a problem ? So why would I be an issue even if I were Nd into someone, you think they would equally want to see me as much as I with them, no?
Nothing wrong with two people wanting to see each other a lot. I rarely see clingy work though. If it's working out wonderfully for your sis and her boyfriend, that's great. I wasn't trying to say anything bad.
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Exactly right! If you seem super desperate and depressed, people are going to feel awkward and unconfortable around you. If you bring so much negativity to the table, people will leave. When you first meet someone, you should be all smiles and act as nice and carefree as possible.
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No offense but, do you give off a bitter, sad, clingy, or desperate vibe? I don't know how I learned this(probably from the many people I met with online), but I've learned to sense when a guy or gal is like this within the first ten seconds. When I stayed on the date, I was usually proved right and I'd never call this person again. Dealing with baggage is the worst.
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Na in fact I am super cautious not to be clingy as I know how epidemically that's a known factor. Also, my sis who's younger than me found someone and he is super clingy. Wants to see her every 2 days literally and she doesn't find that a problem ? So why would I be an issue even if I were Nd into someone, you think they would equally want to see me as much as I with them, no?
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Nothing wrong with two people wanting to see each other a lot. I rarely see clingy work though. If it's working out wonderfully for your sis and her boyfriend, that's great. I wasn't trying to say anything bad.
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Exactly right! If you seem super desperate and depressed, people are going to feel awkward and unconfortable around you. If you bring so much negativity to the table, people will leave. When you first meet someone, you should be all smiles and act as nice and carefree as possible.
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Very true. Though, there were times when I could still sense things from people who acted positive and carefree. XD