Why am i so ugly?

Okay so people tell me i'm pretty/beautiful and stuff. But every time i look in the mirror i just feel so ugly. About my face, hair, and body. Especially when i'm standing next to someone pretty. Is this normal or am i just really this ugly?

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  • BIgEB

    I rememnber working with a girl named Irene (no, that's not her actual name) who was a rather petite brown haired girl...Her boyfriend worked there too, and he and I were good friends. Occasionally, just for a good laugh, I would put my are around her within his eyesight...He would mockingly charge after me as though he were insanely jealous and would beat me up...On a serious manner, though...she was better looking that most girls that I dated, though she thought she was ugly...I discussed the matter with him, and neither of us could understand why...

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  • spectra1

    I like big butts

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  • coolgirl2824

    God doensnt make mistakes everyone is beautiful in their own way. Everyone can be thought of as beautiful if u put the time in. Every ugly girl can be beautiful If they try so I bet ur beautiful u just see all the flaws others overlook

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  • 250call

    guys have a way of finding bueaty in anyone...

    example:these things make up for ugliness:

    big boobs
    nice ass
    sexy lips
    sexy voice
    instant urge to rub boys (dont ask its a long story lol)

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  • Mitsyrules

    The most beautiful girl I ever met constantly said she was ugly. She just saw herself as a disgusting pig, and trust me, she was gorgeous. Some people just think they're really ugly because they hate themselves in general. Some people just want to have others say how beautiful they are. You're probably not nearly as ugly as you think you are.

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  • Or your friends call you pretty to make you feel better.

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  • I don't think
    I'm too ugly but I'm not anything special. Plus my
    Pro pic is green

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  • ttty

    What you see is not what other people see, and nobody sees what is actually there. Our minds perform an immense amount of processing to convert raw light into intelligable information and this distorts things. Our self-esteem can directly effect what we perceive about ourselves emphasizing often minor features, particularly when we combine it with our expectations of what we should look like. Other people are far more able and willing to accept the unique combination of features that make up your face as being normal and, depending upon their tastes, attractive. So don't sweat it. You could be the worlds most beautiful woman and still see a hag in the mirror if that's what you think you are. Learn to accept and love yourself.

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  • photographicmemory

    This is an extreme but if you really think you have a problem then you might want to google body dismorphia disorder.

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  • I feel the same way but I'm sure ur pretty:) it makes you feel a lot prettier when you hv a boyfriend to tell you I'm single:/

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  • I feel the same way!!'

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  • self esteem = low
    same here your probably beautuiful.

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  • simplyme1343

    You are your worst critic. I bet you're beautiful!

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  • scuba4life

    Same thing. People say I should be a model. I just can't see it.

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  • Cake

    ment beautiful

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  • Cake

    said dat people say there ugly to get people to say that they're pretty :) but really theyre ugly or pretty my fran once said dat all the pretty girls thought they were ugly and the ugly girls thought they were hot

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  • juuliewright

    You're beautiful :) I feel the same ways sometimes, but you just gottta keep in mind that you're beautiful in your own way. Don't let the mirror be your worst enemy.

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  • prayerwarrior75

    Putting yourself down is one of the worste things in the world to do. Everyone is beautiful in there own way.

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  • bobthebuilder44

    I feel the same way, I model but I still think I'm very ugly

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  • if you think you're ugly then you think you're ugly. All you can do about it is either listen to people who say you're pretty or change you're way of thought.

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  • Scrat

    You are pretty ;)

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  • missme42

    Aw sweetie- you aren't ugly. I promise!

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  • tubbie89

    What helped me is to stop looking in the mirror so much. That way you're not searching for imperfections.

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  • Hartomesh

    Your self esteem is low. Don't think lowly of yourself. Physical attraction and sex appeal isn't everything. When you look in the mirror, try to look how beautiful/handsome you are instead of finding the flaws of how you look

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    • BIgEB

      ...I used to think about myself in this way, especially when the person who would give me the compliment was my mother...I would often argue with her...yes, this is very much a low self esteem issue, and I started looking at other guys (yes, I'm a man) and would think and ask myself about what I like about myself more than about that man physically (and, no, I'm not gay...just trying to get myself to look more positively at myself).

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  • BrianBard

    People have their opinions in which they give u respect by complimenting u. U shouldnt feel that you're ugly. Becuz if u put yourself down alot, then you'll just feel that way throughout yor whole life, and i dont think u rilly want that to happen. Hope this helps..

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