Why am i clingy

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Once i make a good friend, I want to talk to them 24/7...One of my best friends once asked me why I was so clingy, and I hadn't realized I was clingy and it hurt

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  • [Old Memory]
    5 years ago | pl

    It's not your fault, you just need to find people who enjoy talking more. There's a difference between a friendship and just considering someone a friend without actually communicating with then.

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  • dilater
    5 years ago | pl

    you sound insecure and that will cost you freinds its the quiet on in a group that gets most respect and is best liked

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  • Ellenna
    5 years ago | pl

    There's a difference between wanting to talk to someone 24/7 and actually trying to do so: which is it?

    If you're more intense than the other person in any sort of relationship and therefore more demanding you will drive people away.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      5 years ago | pl

      I pretty much talk to them or msg them most chances I get

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      • AngelicKisses101
        5 years ago | pl

        I want to tell you this that Their is nothing wrong with you sweetie if you want to talk to someone that you like to be friends with then go right ahead their is nothing wrong with being clingy I actually find that to be cute Don’t feel bad about it just accept yourself you will do fine and Don’t worry or care what other people think about you You Got this Keep on being yourself and remember you are Awesome and Loved ❤️

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      • Ellenna
        5 years ago | pl

        Do they respond quickly every time? It would be a good idea to ask them if you're texting too often

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  • CuteTry
    5 years ago | pl

    It is okay to like someone a lot but people don't like if you are obsessed. It makes them uncomfortable.

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  • redrainbow22
    5 years ago | pl

    Your good, if you like to talk then talk!

    People just have different preferences, and all over the place.

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  • raindropsorrow
    5 years ago | pl

    Have you been lonely most of your life? I have, and it made me more of a "clingy" person, especially during my teenage years. I too wasn't aware that others thought my behavior was burdensome and the realization made me feel hurt as well.

    I agree with Oh_No's answer; you just need friends are better at communicating, and if you're in your 20s, I find them a rarity. I've tried to finds activities that stimulate my mind and make me feel less lonely, such as hiking and running.

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