Why?? is this normal?

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I've been going out with my boyfriend for about 2 months and its going well. Recently though I've been having this problem - I don't like it when he touches me even if its on the waist or on my back on bare skin. It makes me cringe and I don't like it but I don't know why. Sometimes it even makes me close my eyes as if I'm in pain but it doesn't hurt. He's my first boyfriend so I thought it might be that I'm not used to it, but I'm not sure. Is it cause we've only been together 2 months? Or something else?

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  • so_damn_unpretty
    13 years ago

    It's normal as this is your first boyfriend. Even if your normally an ok touchy person with friends and such. Being touched by a boy, and a boy you like at that, is very different. I think once you guys get comfortable together and you feel completely relaxed and yourself around him things will start to feel more natural, and soon you will even long for his touch :)

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  • Mr.patatohead
    13 years ago

    well if its your first then its very normal cuz your not used to being touched by the opposite sex. you will get used to it over time

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    if u dont like it then he shouldnt evn be doing it to u. talk to him about it

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  • capcandid
    14 years ago

    are you uncomfortably with yourself?
    like, physically?

    i don't like when my boyfriend touches me sometimes because i'm having low confidence that day. like, i don't like my body or how i've been acting.

    if you love yourself,
    you'll love him loving you.

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  • Northlife
    14 years ago

    Are you sure you really like this guy because it sounds like you're very uncomfortable with him touching you, which is unusual if you are dating. If you don't like it, you should talk to your boyfriend about it and perhaps you'll realise why it is that you don't like it.

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  • Smartboy17
    14 years ago

    My girlfriend has exactly the same prblem but aboout 2 months later it eased into her liking it ! dont worry bout it

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