I guess he just doesn't know how to effectively show and express his infatuation with you so he acts like a baffooon. He probably isn't really meaning to come off as a cocky jerk. It seems like he just has problems communicating. I am not really defending his actions.
If you don't like the way he is treating you regardless of the reasons why you should let him know that he is annoying you. He won't stop being an asshole until you make it crystal clear you don't want him badgering you anymore. Some people do not pick up on subtle hints.
How should I tell him? Until now hes still trying to get my attention eventhough its pretty obvious im ignoring him. I dont want to be harsh and hurt him. I just dont like him.
You will probably have to be harsh just this one time. It is worse that you are not telling him off, it makes him think he still has a chance. It is better sometimes to just rip off the band aid fast instead of slow. Get it over with because otherwise he is just going to think there is hope.
Yeah, you're right. I have to be harsh this time. Its better to tell him early. It'll hurt more if I let him hope for nothing. Thanks for your help. :-)
Whos going to like a guy like this?
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I guess he just doesn't know how to effectively show and express his infatuation with you so he acts like a baffooon. He probably isn't really meaning to come off as a cocky jerk. It seems like he just has problems communicating. I am not really defending his actions.
If you don't like the way he is treating you regardless of the reasons why you should let him know that he is annoying you. He won't stop being an asshole until you make it crystal clear you don't want him badgering you anymore. Some people do not pick up on subtle hints.
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How should I tell him? Until now hes still trying to get my attention eventhough its pretty obvious im ignoring him. I dont want to be harsh and hurt him. I just dont like him.
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You will probably have to be harsh just this one time. It is worse that you are not telling him off, it makes him think he still has a chance. It is better sometimes to just rip off the band aid fast instead of slow. Get it over with because otherwise he is just going to think there is hope.
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Yeah, you're right. I have to be harsh this time. Its better to tell him early. It'll hurt more if I let him hope for nothing. Thanks for your help. :-)