Who would you rather be in a relationship with?

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My friends have always said that I like “dumb men”. Honestly I don’t see them as stupid... but I do like my men a little dumb lmao. I feel like most “dumb” men are much kinder in their heart.

What can I say? I’m a sucker for a big dumb beefcake with a heart of gold.

I think the only trouble I’ve ever run into when dating these types of men is they are prone to be taken advantage of by others.

Someone dumb and kind	44
Someone intelligent and cold	11

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LornaMae

4 years ago

Dumb, definitely. Cold is the worst.

Although I'd obviously much rather an intelligent and kind one.

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- charli.m
  
  4 years ago
  
  This.
  
  Dumb I could deal with...to a degree. I've dated men who weren't the brightest, and that wasnt the dealbreaker.
  
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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  4 years ago
  
  Intelligent and kind? Haha do they exist?
  
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  - LornaMae
    
    4 years ago
    
    Lol! They do and I know a few but they are either gay or already taken! :(
    
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  - LloydAsher
    
    4 years ago
    
    I would probably be more popular if I didnt give a shit about politics. But unfortunately my side is stereotyped as the idiots of the country so finding a partner with an above level of inteligence and is on my political side is getting harder and harder.
    
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FromTheSouthWeirdMan

4 years ago

My wife is more of the intelligent cold type. She's nice to me but she's a bitch to everyone else in the world.

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LloydAsher

4 years ago

Intelligent and cold. I can work with cold. They tend not to use flowery language and they just tell what they want.

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Pumpurrnickel

4 years ago

Hearing a supposed smart person say something dumb every now and then is already irritating enough. No way could I deal with just plain dumb. Besides, a cold person can slowly warm up. A dumb person will likely remain dumb.

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- Walk
  
  4 years ago
  
  bruh
  
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SunSnow

4 years ago

For a women every men is Dumb 🤣.
Actual Dumb people are innocent can be easily turn by others.
Every dumb must be with someone intelligent.
they are great match.
Dumb+dumb= trouble
Every intelligent is actually a dumb for other intelligent.
Dumb and intelligent are like dominant and submissive.
U have a choice

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- SunSnow
  
  4 years ago
  
  My English sucks here 🙈🤦
  
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TerriAngel

4 years ago

DUH.
Penis size?
Income?
Ability to provide, or further your carear?

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TheBlindInquisitor

4 years ago

Yes.

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SerialSinner

4 years ago

intelligence turns me on, but I have to go with dumb and kind cause I can't stand making love with someone who's not emotional at all towards me.

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scorpio_zee

4 years ago

kind-hearted ppl are a blessing

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JellyBeanBandit

4 years ago

Out of those 2 options I'd obviously want the kind one. Honestly though I'd probably feel inadequate with someone that's too intelligent, lol.

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raisinbran

4 years ago

I'll take the cold without the rest.

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JustJazzin

4 years ago

I’ve had both choices and they aren’t any picnic lol each have their flaws for sure.

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Wellyoudliketoknoweh

4 years ago

I rarely meet dumb and kind ppl
Most of them aren’t that kind like

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SunSnow

4 years ago

Look at the voting everyone want a dumb and kind.. actually it's just bcz they think they are intelligent.

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- LloydAsher
  
  4 years ago
  
  I want someone with an equal level of inteligence. I'm above average and I know im not a genius. Just high enough to where if my partner is dumb it will never work. I perfer someone to be able to work out complex humor and be able to be independent but wants to he in a relationship. That's perfection to me.
  
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Mammal-lover

4 years ago

I'm not attracted to idiots or cold people. I'll just get a dog and see what relationship forms there

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- LloydAsher
  
  4 years ago
  
  Not making compromises is the no 1 reason why people are alone.
  
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  - Mammal-lover
    
    4 years ago
    
    I don't comprise on my type. I cant be with an idiot and I cant be with someone who's mean to me. Dogs are neither of those things. And frankly much cuter than the average guy
    
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    - LloydAsher
      
      4 years ago
      
      I ment compromises such as small charicter flaws or unchangeable body variants. Such as being tall or short having big boobs or small ones and the size of guys tackle.
      
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      - Mammal-lover
        
        4 years ago
        
        That's just life. I don't give a ahit about that
        
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- SunSnow
  
  4 years ago
  
  🤣🤣🤣
  
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litelander8

4 years ago

This is a very limited way of thinking.

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  4 years ago
  
  I have a very limited amount of effort I’m willing to put into a post just to prove a silly point to my friends.
  
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  - LornaMae
    
    4 years ago
    
    Were you team dumb or team cold?
    
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  - LloydAsher
    
    4 years ago
    
    I just want a female that finds humor in my very dark humor.
    
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RoseIsabella

4 years ago

Dumb, or ignorant?

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- LloydAsher
  
  4 years ago
  
  I think they are referring to intellectually dull. As in below level inteligence but not to the point of mental retardation. Somewhere in the 25-40 percentile of the inteligence bell curve.
  
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  - RoseIsabella
    
    4 years ago
    
    Oh, dear God! Ignorant isn't so bad if the person is curious, and interested in learning.
    
    I guess I would have to choose neither once again.
    
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ellnell

4 years ago

Depends on how dumb and in what way. I could deal with someone dumb if they were "street smart", I sometimes even prefer those men to booksmart ones but a mixture of both is ideal of course. I've known cold men and i'd never wanna be in a relationship with one of those at least.

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- LloydAsher
  
  4 years ago
  
  That's why most of us cold men have a public mask of at least some form of a warm person.
  
  In public I'm at a glance an extrovert with boundless enthusiasm. Though after 4 hours of that charade I just want to be alone with me myself and I.
  
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  - ellnell
    
    4 years ago
    
    That's not really cold though, that's introverted. I am introverted myself.
    
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    - LloydAsher
      
      4 years ago
      
      I'm quite cold. Rather just say facts and not care about feelings. I would be viewed as an asshole if I didnt lie about caring about people.
      
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