None of the above. If there are people out there that want to be my friend because they think I'm worthy of them, then I feel they are worthy of me. With the exception of people who set out to hurt others; parents who abuse their children; people who hurt animals; and people who constantly criticize me. In my lifetime, I've purposefully ended three friendships.
The first person I liked, but I didn't like her criticizing my appearance and singleness every time we met up. I wrote her a really nice Dear John letter about how much I loved the years we spent partying together but I thought that it was time for us to move on and go our separate ways.
The second person I liked as well. I found it impossible to set boundaries with her and she wouldn't stop taking advantage of my generosity. She was very toxic for me, so I told her how I felt and we nicely ended our friendship together.
The third person was my friend for a few months, before I found out that she abused her children and her husband. I lost respect for her and could no longer consider her a friend.
Thank goodness, I've never befriended someone who's unkind to animals.
Which ONE of these is a good reason to end a friendship?
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None of the above. If there are people out there that want to be my friend because they think I'm worthy of them, then I feel they are worthy of me. With the exception of people who set out to hurt others; parents who abuse their children; people who hurt animals; and people who constantly criticize me. In my lifetime, I've purposefully ended three friendships.
The first person I liked, but I didn't like her criticizing my appearance and singleness every time we met up. I wrote her a really nice Dear John letter about how much I loved the years we spent partying together but I thought that it was time for us to move on and go our separate ways.
The second person I liked as well. I found it impossible to set boundaries with her and she wouldn't stop taking advantage of my generosity. She was very toxic for me, so I told her how I felt and we nicely ended our friendship together.
The third person was my friend for a few months, before I found out that she abused her children and her husband. I lost respect for her and could no longer consider her a friend.
Thank goodness, I've never befriended someone who's unkind to animals.