I've only ended a handful of friendships in my life, and they were for the purpose of my safety (I.E. they were into hard drugs and/or they were practicing criminal activities that were intolerable), usually I don't know about this until later on in the friendship.
Although kids have been a reason too, because I have a hard time accommodating children (I was raised in a military household so I don't really know how children are to be treated and I don't have much patience for disobedience), and if the Mother can't spend any sort of time with me without my having to play parent #2, unless she is really cool and awesome and the kid is fun too, I'm just not willing to do it. I may sound like an ass but it's got to be worth the effort.
Also, friends that constantly question my lifestyle. It's ok to ask questions but when you are calling me out on the basis of the way I choose to live my life, whilst simultaneously being the type of person that says things like "people shouldn't judge each other, we all need to be tolerant/open minded", the paradox of their train of thought alone will push me away, whether or not there was ever friendship.
Those are the main three. The listed, I have no problem. Like Dapped said, most of my friends have something in common with me but as individuals are completely different.
Which ONE of these is a good reason to end a friendship?
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I've only ended a handful of friendships in my life, and they were for the purpose of my safety (I.E. they were into hard drugs and/or they were practicing criminal activities that were intolerable), usually I don't know about this until later on in the friendship.
Although kids have been a reason too, because I have a hard time accommodating children (I was raised in a military household so I don't really know how children are to be treated and I don't have much patience for disobedience), and if the Mother can't spend any sort of time with me without my having to play parent #2, unless she is really cool and awesome and the kid is fun too, I'm just not willing to do it. I may sound like an ass but it's got to be worth the effort.
Also, friends that constantly question my lifestyle. It's ok to ask questions but when you are calling me out on the basis of the way I choose to live my life, whilst simultaneously being the type of person that says things like "people shouldn't judge each other, we all need to be tolerant/open minded", the paradox of their train of thought alone will push me away, whether or not there was ever friendship.
Those are the main three. The listed, I have no problem. Like Dapped said, most of my friends have something in common with me but as individuals are completely different.