I had a case a while back where I worked with a young adult - really cool guy, very social, outgoing, fairly bright and likeable guy who rarely every gave me any crap when I had to step in and keep him in line... such people are fairly rare in lockup so I went into my files to try to figure out why this guy was here.
Turns out, he has been accused of rape twice and sexual assault/harassment multiple times. From what I can tell, all of these instances were completely unrelated.
One instance of rape involved the young lady having changed her story from the initial story after having interacted both with this man and her Mom. Mom gave up on sorting out the conflict so it was just stashed in his record.
Second instance, THAT Mom said she would report it if it happened again. Although everything seemed solid (despite him vehemently claiming that it was consensual), it was still accepted as rape but Mom liked him and decided to give him another chance because who knows? Maybe he was right.
The same pattern followed in the sexual assault and harassment cases. Up until the point at which he ended up in that cell he had spent much of the past few years talking his way out of charges and accepting suspensions, transfers and so on "agreeably, both for his well-being and the comfort of *insert female name here*". Naturally, none of those cases involved the victim or victim's family ever hearing about the previous charges. Hysterical, confused, upset and traumatized female and a well-spoken, gentle looking and reasonable dude. Even from my viewpoint, if I didn't have the experience that I had, I'd also consider that it may have just been a lover's quarrel.
I am not trying to say that this guy has done way more than he was arrested for, but in my experience as someone who has worked with sex offenders (and still does), chances are, whatever they are caught doing is just the most recent on a long list of sex offenses that they managed to get away with either on the record or off the record.
That could be true in the case I described, as I mentioned I have only recently become acquainted. The thing is, he was actually charged when he was still a minor, yet charged as an adult.
He's extremely shy and I don't believe ever dated or had a girlfriend who's last name wasn't jpeg.
All I can reasonably imagine is that he's been viewing materials of this nature on the internet for a few years. So possibly he's been at it for a while, but there is no paper trail of any sort.
Perhaps we could water board his therapist and see if further information could be obtained...
Which is worse, rape or murder?
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I had a case a while back where I worked with a young adult - really cool guy, very social, outgoing, fairly bright and likeable guy who rarely every gave me any crap when I had to step in and keep him in line... such people are fairly rare in lockup so I went into my files to try to figure out why this guy was here.
Turns out, he has been accused of rape twice and sexual assault/harassment multiple times. From what I can tell, all of these instances were completely unrelated.
One instance of rape involved the young lady having changed her story from the initial story after having interacted both with this man and her Mom. Mom gave up on sorting out the conflict so it was just stashed in his record.
Second instance, THAT Mom said she would report it if it happened again. Although everything seemed solid (despite him vehemently claiming that it was consensual), it was still accepted as rape but Mom liked him and decided to give him another chance because who knows? Maybe he was right.
The same pattern followed in the sexual assault and harassment cases. Up until the point at which he ended up in that cell he had spent much of the past few years talking his way out of charges and accepting suspensions, transfers and so on "agreeably, both for his well-being and the comfort of *insert female name here*". Naturally, none of those cases involved the victim or victim's family ever hearing about the previous charges. Hysterical, confused, upset and traumatized female and a well-spoken, gentle looking and reasonable dude. Even from my viewpoint, if I didn't have the experience that I had, I'd also consider that it may have just been a lover's quarrel.
I am not trying to say that this guy has done way more than he was arrested for, but in my experience as someone who has worked with sex offenders (and still does), chances are, whatever they are caught doing is just the most recent on a long list of sex offenses that they managed to get away with either on the record or off the record.
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That could be true in the case I described, as I mentioned I have only recently become acquainted. The thing is, he was actually charged when he was still a minor, yet charged as an adult.
He's extremely shy and I don't believe ever dated or had a girlfriend who's last name wasn't jpeg.
All I can reasonably imagine is that he's been viewing materials of this nature on the internet for a few years. So possibly he's been at it for a while, but there is no paper trail of any sort.
Perhaps we could water board his therapist and see if further information could be obtained...