I don't think personality has no effect, I don't know where you got that impression from me, although I'm sure you must of just read something I said wrong or I just worded something odd that would suggest what you thought I meant.
Yeah, I would agree with the last point. Sometimes if someone is attractive, they might describe stupidity or clumbsyness as being "cute", not all the time though. And when an unnatractive person does something cubsy or stupid, then they just see it as being clumbsy and stupid...
Ah I see. Personally I think they're on about equal footing. I'd like to think that I put more importance on personality, but I understand that both come heavily into play.
I think so too. Infact, I would say maybe personality is more important, but alot of the time people can't get to show their personality if they are less than average looking.
I think people with the looks get more chance to show their personality than the ones that don't have good looks. And even if someone showed their personality, and it was one of the best around, if the person with such a personality is hideous, they aren't going to get a chance with someone.
Nothing wrong with not wanting a relationship with someone due to their looks, we're only human. Alot of people think it's a bad thing to value looks into what you want your partner to look like, I think it's wrong to say you don't when looks do have a play in most people's opinions of others.
Which do you care about more?
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I don't think personality has no effect, I don't know where you got that impression from me, although I'm sure you must of just read something I said wrong or I just worded something odd that would suggest what you thought I meant.
Yeah, I would agree with the last point. Sometimes if someone is attractive, they might describe stupidity or clumbsyness as being "cute", not all the time though. And when an unnatractive person does something cubsy or stupid, then they just see it as being clumbsy and stupid...
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"It irritates me that people think personality matters". Maybe I misunderstood.
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Wow. Sorry. My fault. I meant to add "most" at the end of that. That was my fault, I should read over my comments before I post them.
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Ah I see. Personally I think they're on about equal footing. I'd like to think that I put more importance on personality, but I understand that both come heavily into play.
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I think so too. Infact, I would say maybe personality is more important, but alot of the time people can't get to show their personality if they are less than average looking.
I think people with the looks get more chance to show their personality than the ones that don't have good looks. And even if someone showed their personality, and it was one of the best around, if the person with such a personality is hideous, they aren't going to get a chance with someone.
Nothing wrong with not wanting a relationship with someone due to their looks, we're only human. Alot of people think it's a bad thing to value looks into what you want your partner to look like, I think it's wrong to say you don't when looks do have a play in most people's opinions of others.