Which case would be better for you?

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CASE 1: Your partner feels sexual desire for you but they do not have sex with you for whatever reason (e.g. situational factors). So you do not have sex with them but you know that they have sexual desire for you.

CASE 2 : Your partner feels no sexual desire for you but you feel a strong sexual desire for them. They decide (freely) to have sex with you despite their lack of sexual desire. So you have sex with them but you know they do not have much pleasure from it and they did not desire you sexually (at least not now or today).

If you had to choose between case 1 and case 2, which one would you choose as "better" for you? If both of them sound bad to you, which one is "lesser evil" for you?

man - Case 1 would be better for me 69
man - Case 2 would be better for me 41
woman - Case 1 would be better for me 81
woman - Case 2 would be better for me 12
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  • Anime7
    11 years ago

    I'm going with Case 1. I'm a virgin, but not being desired doesn't sound very nice and I don't want to do anything if my partner doesn't want to. I don't mind waiting... that's all I've been doing.

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  • XcOoKiEsX
    11 years ago

    Case 1 reminds me of a long distance relationship. Id rather try and make it work than have a sexual relationship who with someone who will never want me.

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  • anti-hero
    11 years ago

    Case 3 - Find someone that wants to have sex with me and does so.

    If I had to pick, I would go with 2. I am a guy after all.

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago

    I'm actually in Case 1 myself...and although I love the fact he has a strong sexual desire for me...because he is with someone we can't do anything and that hurts (but for the right reasons). If i was in case 2, I would ditch the guy and go and find someone who wants it as much as I do, the first time is meant to be special (apparently)

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  • birdmany
    11 years ago

    And people wonder why so many get hooked on narcotics so young.

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