What really stands in my way is the fact that I completely lack self-esteem and confidence, not only when it comes to dating but overall, in general too. For each day that passes I also feel like I drift further and further away from ever having a girlfriend. Something that lowers my confidence even more, which in turn gives me that feeling of slowly getting further and further away from that first girlfriend. It is an evil spiral.
When I do a little thinking I quickly realise that I have never really been in love, so in a way that girl to kiss has never really been around. The fact that I have low self-esteem and shite confidence has also – and still is – kept me away from parties or other places where you nirmally would meet girls. IF I attend one of these places, however, my confidence prevents me flirting with the girls I find attractive and interesting. I can, I do keep conversations with them and sometimes I even make them laugh, but I do not really flirt or ”make moves” because my fear of rejection is huge.
I know for a fact that I am not very good-looking, but I am nit horrendous looking either. I can keep conversation with a girl going and I take good care of myself. I could probably get a girl - I only need to grow a pair of balls and stopped fearing rejection so much to replace it with a more masculine, risk-taking attitude.
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What really stands in my way is the fact that I completely lack self-esteem and confidence, not only when it comes to dating but overall, in general too. For each day that passes I also feel like I drift further and further away from ever having a girlfriend. Something that lowers my confidence even more, which in turn gives me that feeling of slowly getting further and further away from that first girlfriend. It is an evil spiral.
When I do a little thinking I quickly realise that I have never really been in love, so in a way that girl to kiss has never really been around. The fact that I have low self-esteem and shite confidence has also – and still is – kept me away from parties or other places where you nirmally would meet girls. IF I attend one of these places, however, my confidence prevents me flirting with the girls I find attractive and interesting. I can, I do keep conversations with them and sometimes I even make them laugh, but I do not really flirt or ”make moves” because my fear of rejection is huge.
I know for a fact that I am not very good-looking, but I am nit horrendous looking either. I can keep conversation with a girl going and I take good care of myself. I could probably get a girl - I only need to grow a pair of balls and stopped fearing rejection so much to replace it with a more masculine, risk-taking attitude.