Whenever my boyfriend goes out

This is about you being insecure, not him being whatever. It's not an insult to you but you have shit to work out. Half the battle is legitimately realizing it's in your head, and it sounds like you know that but it's hard to admit to yourself.

Bad news: you will continually run into this same problem with every guy you date, which will continue to deteriorate your self esteem, until you realize it's you.

Good news: it's you, which means it's something you can theoretically fix.

I wish you luck, those feelings are hard to handle and not easy to heal.

Of course he will look at girls lol we all do and whoever says no is lying tbh, doesnt mean I'd change that girl for my gf tbh. I mean, if a person is emotionally attached to someone, why would they cheat? So if you think he really loves you don't worry about it.

You can't worry about stuff like that, because it'll eat you up thinking about. All you can do is trust that he won't do those things and if it happens that he does at least you know it wasn't your fault.

Didn't you already ask this before?

Didn't you already ask this befor

This is the same guy looking up women from back page and going out to clubs every weekend.

You are obviously worried. You have to sit down and talk with him. Otherwise you are going to drive yourself crazy and push him away.

It really sounds like there isn't much trust here and it doesn't sound like he respects you that much.

Sorry to be harsh but a mature 26 year old doesn't go clubbing every weekend leaving his girlfriend behind. They also don't look up hookers on back page cause they think it's "funny".

i was in a similar situation until my boyfriend sat me down and reassured me that I'm the only one he wants, that the girls he sees out may as well be potatoes because he doesn't see anything in them, and that the whole time he's out, he's thinking of me and how he'd like me to be there. Trust me, if your boyfriend hasn't given you any reason to worry, you have nothing to worry about! Yeah, there are other girls there and yeah alcohol is involved, but the main thing to remember is that he is with you for a reason, if he wanted anything or anyone else you would not be able to call him your boyfriend. Stay at home while he's out safely knowing that of all the people out there, YOU are the one he has chosen to be in a relationship with. You are his girlfriend, and whether he's in a library or a nightclub, you're gonna be in his heart and on his mind. Hope this helped!

I guess you don't trust him that much, so talk to him?

You are too insecure. And to be honest, I think the only way to solve this is believing in yourself - believing you are worth, and that people are usually nice.