it doesn't seem like you've forgotten her. Seems like you have a lot of hatred toward her (for good reason) and still 40 some years later haven't been able to let that hatred toward her go.
Just read your answer to my post considering my mother, and you are correct. I want to be able to like her before it is too late. Sorry for imposing on you like this, but if you do not mind, I was wondering if you have any kinds of suggestions that might help me to possibly try and ressurect some kind of a relationship with her? Please I am sorry for laying this on you, but for some reason you seem like a person I can.
I find that extremely sad for you and I'm hoping she regrets saying that to you. In fact, she may even deny saying it - they have a strange way of re-writing history. You may want to make contact, even if you do find out that you were right to abandon her all those years ago. Or, you never know, she may have some redeeming qualities. However, just because she's older I wouldn't necessarily expect her to be sweeter. Good luck to you and I hope you've had a happy and successful life DESPITE your mother.
Thank you ever-so-much for your kind words, and yes, despite of my past, my life to me has turned out great. I have a loving and trusting Hubby, two wonderful twin sons; ages 31, and all of us if you do not mind me saying, have a strong relationship with the Lord. I have tried connecting with her, but she does not want to see me. That is all right, because I know in God's time, no matter how long it may seem, if it is His will we will reunite. I am happy with my life. Again thanks so much for your kind thoughts really appreciate them. Take care my friend.
When your mother dies you will feel what?
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it doesn't seem like you've forgotten her. Seems like you have a lot of hatred toward her (for good reason) and still 40 some years later haven't been able to let that hatred toward her go.
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Hello Mikkixox:
Just read your answer to my post considering my mother, and you are correct. I want to be able to like her before it is too late. Sorry for imposing on you like this, but if you do not mind, I was wondering if you have any kinds of suggestions that might help me to possibly try and ressurect some kind of a relationship with her? Please I am sorry for laying this on you, but for some reason you seem like a person I can.
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I find that extremely sad for you and I'm hoping she regrets saying that to you. In fact, she may even deny saying it - they have a strange way of re-writing history. You may want to make contact, even if you do find out that you were right to abandon her all those years ago. Or, you never know, she may have some redeeming qualities. However, just because she's older I wouldn't necessarily expect her to be sweeter. Good luck to you and I hope you've had a happy and successful life DESPITE your mother.
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Hello Joy Bird:
Thank you ever-so-much for your kind words, and yes, despite of my past, my life to me has turned out great. I have a loving and trusting Hubby, two wonderful twin sons; ages 31, and all of us if you do not mind me saying, have a strong relationship with the Lord. I have tried connecting with her, but she does not want to see me. That is all right, because I know in God's time, no matter how long it may seem, if it is His will we will reunite. I am happy with my life. Again thanks so much for your kind thoughts really appreciate them. Take care my friend.