When you watch fire, how do you feel?

I don't get aroused specifically by fire, but I can see how it could be used seductively. I could get turned on by the danger aspect, or the pain aspect, maybe like if someone was running a lighter along my skin, something like that.

Looking at fire ... I don't find it arousing but it can be kind of soothing. It's quite beautiful to watch. Touching it can feel soft and warm but not arousing.

I get very turned on by fire! Especially from matches. The sound sight and smell of the sulfur makes me horny and my wiener get very hard. I love having some one strike them hard under my cock while I stroke it. I love to feel the warms of the flame on my cocks skin and underside. I love to run my cock through the flame. If the person strikes the matches agresivly and fast with popping sounds on the match book or box I get even more horny. If they do this long enough I will cum very hard. I love the smell of the sulfur and the thought of some one setting my wiener on fire makes me tikle even more. I also like to masturbate this way alone I strike the matches and smell them and I place the match box against my balls while I rub my cock. I love fire!!!

love fire. Mostly love watching videos of it, or sitting in front of a fireplace / bonfire / campfire etc and enjoying the warmth and the way the lights and colors dance. Sometimes its arousing sexually, sometimes just soothing, but always fascinating. I've lit fires in our fireplace simply for the fun / enjoyment of it, but nothing destructive or illegal; mostly just for my own enjoyment. I do enjoy watching others who play with fire, either by lighting clothes or other things and watching them / it burn. Fire is very primal and triggers a response in one way or another, in all of us.

As someone said to me in 2002, there's something primal and soothing about fire.

Sexually? It depends on the context. I mostly agree with stone_love. I sort of understand guyalight, the way he describes it. Did you know you can use liquids other than butane?

I don't know anyone who plays with fire - where are you guys? E-mail me.

Playing with matches is always exciting when I masturbate, but I prefer to set my clothes alight and watch how the flames slowly (at first) spread. I love the danger and the sudden pain from hot flames touching my skin before I drown the fire in my shower stall - No full body fires, but slow flames eagerly spreading up my body igniting my clothes after having fed on the lighter fluid I started out with ! Watching myself burning in my large bathroom mirror is heaven......

And to be fair i'll answer these questions too.

When you just watch fire or flames, what kind of thoughts and feelings do you have?

For me, aside from arousal, i feel a longing for "more" than just watching, i think about how the flames would feel if i were inside them.

Do you feel drawn to the flames, or feel an urge to touch it?

I do, when i see flames i want to touch and feel it and i do if i'm alone or i have a good excuse. I love the feeling of fire running through my fingers, or holding my fingers over a candle flame.

When you see someone calmly or casually touching flames or playing with fire (without freaking out like dumb youtube kids), do you think of it in any sexual context?

For me when i see someone do things like touch a candle flame or just burning something and watching it, i can't help but think that some part of it is erotic to that person. Why else would you do such things but for pleasure?

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Have you ever had any sexual experiences where fire has played a role?

Definitely so,to the point of my partner and i setting both ourselves on fire together during intercourse,and having my shirt-covered chest and stomach set on fire while she took me into her mouth with her face right next to the flames. I've found very few people who will admit to seeing fire in this way, but i suspect a LOT more people out there do think fire is sexy, but just deny or repress it.