When will i trust again?

About eight months ago my boyfriend of eight years was having an 'emotional relationship' with a girl online that he works with. Although this situation in so many ways has made us stronger as a couple, I find myself at times very distrustful of him. I feel like enough time has passed that I should be well over this, but I admit there are still times that I get very upset and even cry.

Is this normal?

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Based on 37 votes (29 yes)
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  • Sedgar18

    Reading these comments is so Bizarre!

    Well when i was little me and my sister used to grab each others buts a lot when we were play fighting and we used to take baths together when we were really little but that's it. It was kinda weird when my sister got to the stage where she realized we were doing something wrong because I didn't understand, I thought she didn't want to play with me anymore. I listened once or twice to my parents having sex because i was carious about what was sex and why does it give so much pleasure.

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  • wannarocktheworld

    hey ur just plan overreacting ma'am

    thing is,we males tend to deviate from the obvious stuff when it sortta....gets boring

    just find some times,get things exciting,ya know what we see as exciting ;-)

    and try to give him his own space - something you girls talk all the time about...
    we need it too,some alone happy hour,and some private moments with the other people, may be some of them will be girls...but u gotta trust,8 years of love(i dunno how intense or not but...)can't just be subsidised by a girl on virtual world

    atleast in my case it wouldnt

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  • wannarocktheworld

    i think having sex with siblings is not all that grossing out,except that it should remain where it occurred - in the minds of the consenting siblings and the room in which they had sex.

    i just find it plain absurd - getting sexually attracted to your same bloody relative.I look at my sisters and all i feel sometime is hatred and wanna punch them in the nose for all those shitty talks they do with my mother and elder brother,and not coming straight to me....sorry for the digression

    so i think,for me, its not normal...either the siblings would've seen each other naked by mistake,and that aroused the feelings or heck! it just can't happen man!

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  • stokedscooter

    its ok to get upset over that stuff....it never goes away..... you just have to deal with it and try not to think about it

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