When to tell my date that I still live with my ex and her kids

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  • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress
    11 years ago | pl

    tell her right away.

    and your ex needs to find her own place. is there a reason she NEEDS to live with you? Are you supporting her children?

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    • Blah706blah
      11 years ago | pl

      Because rent where I live is crazy high, an the waiting list for low income housing is 6 months long.

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      • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress
        11 years ago | pl

        so until then you're supporting her and her kids.

        yeah that will be attractive to the new girl.

        and i agree with alison - 7500 to move out? to what? put her stuff in a uhaul and say "bye"?

        hell moving my stuff across the country only cost about 2-3k including the rental and gas.

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        • Blah706blah
          11 years ago | pl

          The 7500 is approx what three months rent will be, I'm not paying for her stuff to be moved I'm payin her to go quietly.

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          • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress
            11 years ago | pl

            sounds like she has you by the cock, man

            you can pay her to move out "quietly" and hope she doesn't try to take you for more.

            you can tell her "gtfo" and see what drama she creates

            or you can just let her stay and kiss any hope of a relationship with someone else goodbye

            sounds like you may want to consider which is going to cost you less in the long run. or lawyer up

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