Hi! I have Asperger's, too. I don't usually tell people about it, because I like to keep it private. I don't want people thinking of me as a "weirdo" or "alien". Even though we aren't weirdos or aliens, that is how it appears to the outside world. I would recommend telling her after six months. If you have been together for six months, it means that she really likes you. If she likes you for YOU, if means that it shouldn't matter to her if you have Asperger's. If she doesn't want to be with you anymore after you tell her, it means that she isn't worth it. You want someone who will love you for YOU and not care if you have Asperger's. Of course, this is all personal preference, but this is what I would do. By the way, I read through the whole post and can relate to everything you said. :)
When should you tell your boyfriend/girlfriend you have asperger's?
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Hi! I have Asperger's, too. I don't usually tell people about it, because I like to keep it private. I don't want people thinking of me as a "weirdo" or "alien". Even though we aren't weirdos or aliens, that is how it appears to the outside world. I would recommend telling her after six months. If you have been together for six months, it means that she really likes you. If she likes you for YOU, if means that it shouldn't matter to her if you have Asperger's. If she doesn't want to be with you anymore after you tell her, it means that she isn't worth it. You want someone who will love you for YOU and not care if you have Asperger's. Of course, this is all personal preference, but this is what I would do. By the way, I read through the whole post and can relate to everything you said. :)