I admit, it's 5:30 in the morning and I skimmed your thing. Anyway, I would say tell them if it's relevant. If she gets upset because you aren't open enough then tell her but really if she already likes you she shouldn't have a problem with it. I dated a girl and some of my friends were like "I think she has aspergers and I was like, maybe, but I didn't really think about it too much, later I found out she did actually have aspergers. I just said "I didn't know that" and we kept talking about whatever we were talking about. Mind you she had some mental stuff going on that was more readily apparent when you talked to her so the fact that she had aspergers was never really at the front of my mind. It was just a fact about her.
When should you tell your boyfriend/girlfriend you have asperger's?
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I admit, it's 5:30 in the morning and I skimmed your thing. Anyway, I would say tell them if it's relevant. If she gets upset because you aren't open enough then tell her but really if she already likes you she shouldn't have a problem with it. I dated a girl and some of my friends were like "I think she has aspergers and I was like, maybe, but I didn't really think about it too much, later I found out she did actually have aspergers. I just said "I didn't know that" and we kept talking about whatever we were talking about. Mind you she had some mental stuff going on that was more readily apparent when you talked to her so the fact that she had aspergers was never really at the front of my mind. It was just a fact about her.