When should you tell your boyfriend/girlfriend you have asperger's?

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  • I have a similar situation. I'm an aspie, but people don't notice - or at least it's never been sufficiently obvious that anyone has, to my knowledge, suggested I might be have Asperger's. I only found out last year, at the age of 22, when I did a test online and decided to go and get tested by a real doctor.

    I've had sex with a lot of girls (150-200), and it's never been an issue - I just never told them. If I were ever to have a relationship, though, I suppose I'd tell them straight up as soon as the conversation strayed into that vague territory. Sooner the better, imo.

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    • Hm, I'll see. It's a hard matter.

      By the way, you're 23 and you've had sex with 150-200 women? That is a LOT. If you became sexually active at the age of 17, it'd still mean you would've slept with roughly one girl a week.

      When will you tell this to the girl you're in a relationship with? :p
      not that I'm judging you, of course. Some men dream of this lifestyle. It's just that it might scare some women off.

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